What's a quality you possess that you think is your greatest asset in a relationship, but could also be your biggest flaw?

[HawkPerception]

Don't question the image. I just thought it looked cool. I don't think it necessarily depicts the question.

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6 mo

I feel like most people seem to have the same kind of answer. "I care too much." Does everyone really care too much? Or are some people not being honest with themselves? Questions, questions...

[fishcake_buttie]

My greatest quality that would become a flaw is my love for my countrymen, it would lead me into battle to protect my wife and child (ren), I may die and my kids would grow up without me there to look after them. This, for a long time has been my greatest virtue and flaw - it seems that most women want a man who is subdued to an extreme, not someone willing to break his back or die for them.

It also seems like the other answers are weak... I mean I take care of myself so my future partner knows I am able to take care of her, strength is required along with caring so one has to stay strong to care for a family.

[Twodogs0525]

I'm way to patient/easy going. Obviously, those are good qualities to have and I've always been complimented about having them but the flaw is people think of you as being a pushover, which can lead to angry outbursts when I'm pushed too far.

[VioletHaze]

I am very devoted to the people I care about but I can be intense about it. Some find me too much. I also don't have a strong sense of identity, because I am a social chameleon, being whatever is neccessary. That makes me flexible, but can be mistaken as manipulative or even confusing at times. Cause what do I want? And how do I feel? No idea, let's talk about you 😅

So basically, I am too devoted.

[VioletHaze]

Saw your update. Another strength is my analytical nature. Could become my biggest flaw if I read too much into behavior or words and drive the person insane. Otherwise, it gives me the opportunity to deeply understand others.

Maybe that's more accurate, maybe not. I do believe a lot of women feel they care too deeply and give too much of themselves in the process.

[HawkPerception]

I liked your answer the first time not to worry. You're the only one that didn't just have that you care too much. You added the chameleon part, which was the most unique answer. I appreciate the response to the update though. You're getting MHO 👍

[Simslover92]

I care way too much. Being caring is the best quality to have in a relationship but it also can be a great weakness and flaw because I tend to neglect myself and worry more about my partner and their needs, neglecting my own.

[DishLady]

Hmm. That's a good question. I don't know. Perhaps my heart? I love unconditionally, but that comes back to bite me in the ass sometimes.

[Pearl222]

Caring for them and going above and beyond if I truly love them but sometimes losing myself in the process or neglecting my needs and boundaries.

[queenofcardio]

I can be spontaneous sometimes. It's not fair sometimes to the person I'm dating because what if he doesn't want to go along with my sudden idea or sometimes I'll forget to communicate what I am doing

[YourExLover69]

I'm being extra romantic, caring, clingy when I have partner. Don't know if girls love it or not. But nowadays I'm single. Lol

[MannMitAntworten]

My integrity. Apparently, it comes off as two perfect or too rigid. So be it.