If you could choose your partner's one primary love language, what would it be and why?

[HawkPerception]

How THEY like to receive love.

Quality Time

Physical Touch

Words of Affirmation

Acts of Service

Gifts

[RandomGirl42]

I'm not sure I really understand the question but I guess that's not going to stop me from replying anyway. 🤣

If I could choose how she likes to receive love? Like if I'd rather have her prefer one of those choices? I mean they kind of go together, at least for me. Maybe I'm just over thinking it all. And gifts like presents? I mean as superficial as I joke about being sometimes I'm really not. A hand picked flower means more to me than a bought diamond ring. But that's me. 🤷‍♀️

[HawkPerception]

Yeah what they prefer, so what you want to mostly give them. Because people always ask what their own love lauguages are, which is how they themselves prefer to receive love. But they're not asked often, what they'd like to output.

[HawkPerception]

For example, in my case, I like receiving quality time, words of affirmation, and physical touch in that order. And what I like to output (what I'd like my partner's love language to be) is honestly pretty much the same.

Acts of service are nice, but I'd rather they chill. It makes me feel guilty when someone actively does something for me. And gifts usually make me pretty uncomfortable because then I feel like I have to give something back. If I want something, I'd rather get it myself.

[RandomGirl42]

Oh, I get it. Ty. Yes, quality time but like just snuggling while stargazing , a picnic where u feed each other berries , splashing each other at the river, a smile, a laugh, that sparkle in my eyes I get only when I look at her and she at me, sometimes wiping a tear from each others eye, a soft hug, a gentle kiss, a reassuring squeezing of hands, that is the language of love to me and sometimes there doesn't have to be a word said.

[HawkPerception]

Sounds beautiful to me. Agreed

[RandomGirl42]

Ty for the MHO 😊

[CherryLove007]

Quality time is priceless and physical touch. Quality time is def my first choice.

[Finchie40]

Touch and words of affirmation because that’s my love language as well

[MicahRaine]

Physical touch is the love language I would most enjoy receiving in the moment, be it sex or a nice hug, but when I thought about it for a moment longer, I realized that quality time is the most important love language for a long-term "until the world burns and our ashes float into space" relationship.

Yes, sex is amazing, gifts are fun, kind words lift us up, and it's nice when someone else does your chores. But quality time is so much more. The people I love most in life are the same people who, at the beginning of our relationships, would spend time with me without needing any reason.

Quality time isn't necessarily having a deep conversation or doing some activity; quality time is just enjoying the pure presence of another person. And at the end of the day, being with someone you love is what it's all about, right?

So yeah, quality time is the way.

[queenofcardio]

I'd prefer his love language to be physical touch. I'm good with my hands

[HawkPerception]

I think most guys would like that lol

[CalmUntilAbused]

Tied between physical touch (like hugging and cuddling, not sex) and quality time. I suppose the latter would include the former!

[Ironco]

That's a hard one to choice, I'll say a mixture of the first 4.

[HawkPerception]

But if you HAD to choose one

[Ironco]

Then "touch"

[Crimsyjo]

I only like touch in a romantic or sexualised way so for me to get my touch needs I need a partner who loves to cuddle, kiss, stroke, hold and touch. Very much so.