I think caring each other in married life is best way to express deep love, read details?

[Anastasia4real]

i think caring each other in married life is best way to express deep love, especially when partner is tired, it's with talking or with little body massage?

[Smart_Monk]

I would be lying if i even just overlooked the part you mentioned. Yes, body massages is the physical outcome of love.

But how do you know that you in your heart, the felt substance that you hold dear, is really the substance of the other person and not just your own internaly generated representation of them? In other words, you're not just in love with the idea of the person?

The trouble is that if you believe that your entire consciousness is stored in the brain and you only have 5 senses, then anything you ever love is your own brain generated idea. Well, that is often the case, but it doesn't have to be.

This debate sits on the border between materialistic worldview and that of acknowledging real non-physical (yes, even not queantum physical) soul connections.
The quickest comparison you can think of, is CIA-style remote viewing. Proven to exist, but nothing practical.

It still proves the existence of non physical connections that aren't useful for warfare. In fact, the exact kind of psychic experiences that they specifically studied aren't really useful at all, having uncontrolled clues wash over you as you supress your own "self".

But you can guess, if those outdated less evolved non-physical perceptions exist, then as a whole non phsycial connections exist in various forms.

In my opinion, real love is not a physical act. Though the ones you described are sometimes symptoms of love. You know that you love the real person if you are able to perceive distubances they experience via a non physical perception. People call this empathy but the problem there is that they usually combine it with "shrink your ego" paradigm, which kills the individuality, and there's no "I" left to sense the also now-extinguished "you"'s feelings.

And really even touch your soul with their soul to create something real, that did not exist before. That feels like a creative act, always, never a destructive one like physical orgasms sometimes do. This requires no physical acts, but clearly leaves "symptoms" so to say, that bring love into the world.

[ohsheeT]

Yes of course. And if you know how to work your hands and your fingers, and if you know where all the pressure points are, and if you can touch deep and hard and also very soft and gentle sensual\n Whether you use oil lotion. But you do have to know how to touch

And then even giving a scalp massage or even a foot massage. Or even facial massage

It's nice to do it or have it done at least once a week

[WhitneySnow]

Caring is a good thing, but there are other ways to express caring for someone besides physically

[Nikki1989]

Absolutely.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode love, dodge red flags, and build that deep ride-or-die connection.

You’re absolutely right. Real love in marriage is mostly in the small caring moments. When your partner is tired, gentle talking, listening, a little massage, making them tea, rubbing their back, playing with their hair… that’s pure gold.

That’s not basic caring, that’s “I choose you, every day” energy. 💕

[MontBlanc]

I agree.

In a marriage, love isn’t just about grand gestures or words, it’s in the everyday care, attention, and support you show each other.

Listening, understanding, helping, and being present for one another are the ways deep love really manifests.

Those small but consistent acts often speak louder than anything else.

[Lliam]

I agree and I've been married now for almost 30 years.

Massage, talking, cuddling, helping each other with chores or caring for one another when needed.

[NathanDavis]

a massage, sure...

but also a general check-up

gotta see how those blood cell/iron levels are doing...

[slatyb]

It's certainly important. Mutual respect is perhaps even more important.

[queenofcardio]

Yes, sounds amazing

[Kelly6]

@anastasia4real 100% true

[wkhan_87]

Yes ,, you are absolutely right 👍

[exitseven]

howabout a foot rub instead. ?

[Sammy098]

I agree