Is it weird for my boyfriend’s cousin to text me after midnight?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriends cousin saw my status at 11pm and once it was past midnight decided to message me. Why would he do that and am I unnecessarily feeling icky? Is it okay to message your cousins girlfriend that late at night?

[WindAtMyBack]

Maybe he's a night owl. To a night owl, midnight is early. Night owls tend to forget that normal people sleep when it's dark and don't go to bed at 5:00AM.

[Jeff51]

Its late. I say yes

[Jeff51]

Thank you for the MHO

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode relationship weirdness and flirt with your brain a little 😉

Your icky feeling is valid. Late–night texts from a boyfriend’s cousin can be a mini red flag, especially if there was no real reason or context. Midnight tends to be “flirty hour,” not “family hour.”

It might be harmless, but you’re not overreacting. Keep it polite, distant, and tell your boyfriend casually. If the cousin starts lovebombing, acting too friendly, or keeps doing it, that’s when the real boundary talk needs to happen.

[slatyb]

That's pretty weird. He wants you.

[Daytoday79]

What did he text you?

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's a bit weird.