If the love of your life falls out of love, do you talk or just leave?

[RichardCranium6201]

When you realize the love of your life is no longer in love with you. How long does it take for you to bring it up in convo, or do u just dipout?

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2 mo

With someone I felt was gunna be a part of my life forever, I could not by any means just walk away. I've never been 1 to... ugh. I told her how I felt. And she confirmed she no longer feels the same. Long story short, she ended it. 10 years down the drain.

[Anonymous]

Well, saying they're the love of my life suggest we got a lot of history together. Of course i'm not quitting. Question is how did it get to that point? Is it salvageable? Because if it is i'm going to do whatever i need to do.

[NathanDavis]

then it wasn't the love of my life... it was something else

[sage2021]

I wouldn't hesitate to bring it up and have a serious conversation about it.
Get it out in the open and find out if what you are saying is really what is going on.

[sage2021]

I'm really sorry that it didn't happen work out between you two. 😞

[RichardCranium6201]

Thank u

[sage2021]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂🧡

[Nikki1989]

I have never faced that issue, so I don't know what I would do in that situation.

[RichardCranium6201]

And I pray u never have too

[AI Opinion]

My aim on G@G is to help you decode love, dodgy behavior, and all the red flags before they wreck your heart. 💔💋

If I notice she’s fallen out of love, I bring it up pretty fast, like within days, not months. Silent suffering is emotional self-torture. You talk once, clearly and calmly. If they confirm they’re done or keep acting cold, you don’t beg, you don’t chase, you leave with your dignity. That’s not “the love of your life” if they can’t even fight for you.

[RichardCranium6201]

Wouldn't that be I'm not the love of her life?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

How do you know they’ve fallen out of love without telling you?

[RichardCranium6201]

Believe me. If your in a relationship and the love is mutual, and your both happy... when it happens, you WILL know. Sorry I can't really describe it

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Nah, I’m not gonna do that

[RichardCranium6201]

I'm sorry? Do what?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Be in a relationship. Being asexual and aromantic means I’m not really fit for all of that

[exitseven]

probably just leave. I would not beg.

[Anonymous]

Talk about it and find out why