If your ex ghosted or blocked you, but then came back, would you take them back?

Question

If your ex came back after ghosting or blocking you, maybe weeks or months later, or even like a year later, and they suddenly called or texted you out of the blue, saying something like "I miss you," would you take them back? Would you even respond?

DishLady · Answer

If you are a good person there is always an 80% chance the horrid ex will resurface.

Now of course you KNOW i will spout the wisdom of ages and say "Don't do it." however experience has shown me that I did give my silly ex a second chance.

To split hairs a little, I'll say this. If the person BLOCKED you... then there is a reason for it and just don't cross that line again. If the person "ghosted" it's perhaps ok to presume something didn't align and a second chance MIGHT be warranted. But don't invest yourself as much as you originally did.

ohsheeT · Answer

No once its over its over if you know who you are

you know your worth and they new there's when they left
Or they thought they did
But it didn't work out for them
So they want you back

Sorry but what I have within is hard to find in a man

And I will only give it to a person who is just as strong
not one who new who I was
But thought the grass was greener with someone else

But found out the hard way
No matter what side of the fence your on the grass only stays green if you take care of it
Because that's who you are

TrueConfection · Answer

No. How could you trust that person not to leave you hanging again?

My ex boyfriend wanted me back once I was engaged to my now husband. Too late! I wouldn’t have trusted him even if I did want him. Betrayal tends to make a person suddenly very unattractive.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Oh goodness, no. In fact, one of them sent me a friend request on Facebook five years later. I just ignored it for a few months and then rejected it.

lilBigPotato · Answer

I believe that exes should stay that, independent on if they blocked me or not.

sage2021 · Answer

No way!!  And whoever said they always come back, well, that just isn't true.

Chichi90 · Answer

Hi everyone. How's your weekend so far? A wise person once said you can only teach people how to treat yo and we're not revolving doors. That's gonna be a no for me man *Randy Jackson's voice.*

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Oh FUCK No! If I got ghosted or blocked by my ex I wouldn’t take her back. Maybe BOOM BOOM Buddies!

Iron_Man · Answer

That was back in 2003 too much time has passed that’s it. Anyway, she’s gotten more fat now

msc545 · Answer

Of course I wouldn't, but she wouldn't even have to ghost or block me. There are an infinite number of things she could have said or done that would have made sure I wouldn't come back.

Baxton567 · Answer

MotherFUCK NO NO NO NO NO!!! ONCE SHE LEAVES ONCE SHELL LEAVE THE FUCK AGAIN!!!

Anonymous · Answer

It really depends. We can still be friends If the breakup was amicable. I did offer to remain friends with my ex. But after a reminder of how crazy he was... I decided to cut it off.

Shiprex · Answer

No, they chose a path. The bridge gets burned

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Nope

blshbnz · Answer

Hellll no

AgentG111 · Answer

Fuck No, move on life's short live it up!

dudeinohio · Answer

Never

If your ex ghosted or blocked you, but then came back, would you take them back?

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