Well, despite the fact that he is an ass for even thinking this...In my opinion...
At least he was honest with you..and didn't lie about it...Though, still...what a jerk...
Anyway, okay, my view on this:
Girl with boyfriend...having problems...
She needs a 'clutch' to feel better...
Your boyfriend is her 'clutch'- She needs another male in her life to fulfill her needs,
and since hers is acting like an ass...she is needy to a man, so she invites someone
else to go.
I honestly do not think she knows about you...because if she did, I do not think
she would have ever invited him...unless she is a real b****!
She definitely wants more than just friends...even if it is not a relationship.
You are a woman, you should know yourself, when we are having problems in a
relationship, we get vulnerable and look for our 'hero' our 'knight' to help us
get back on our feet.
Your boyfriend might be oblivious to this. He might think, that she is just cool
and it might be an awesome adventure! And, he gets the chance to experience it!
HOWEVER, he has a girlfriend..this is not right. AT ALL. This girl clearly is having problems
with her boyfriend...RED FLAG>>to us females anyway...
He is a guy..most guys don't think about it 2sided..only 1sided...
Ask him how he would feel? And, explain you reasons...Not to mention, you
weren't exclusive with him when you went with that one dude..so he can't bring that up
in your face.
However, who didn't want to become exclusive and who did? Usually, one of the persons
want to be exclusive and the other holds back...If you were the one who didn't want to be exclusive, then I could see him holding that against you..but if he is the one who didn't want to be exclusive, then even a bigger reason for him not to be able to hold it against you.
best wishes xx I am sorry...I would be devastated...really. :/
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I would be pissed too. Have you talked to him about it? Ask him those questions: does she know about you? ect. Maybe you could meet her. And if you don't want him to go explain why, and don't yell cause then he won't listen.
Not to make you worry but the whole thing with the friend seems shifty. Things with her boyfriend haven't been going well so she invites another man? It's just off to me.
I really hope it works out :)
i don't see what's wrong with this, just because you got a lable now things change, please you get what you put in, and if you went on a trip with a friend then he gets to also. two months and a label doesn't change anything, you couldn't have not went, I'm sure your feelings were the same or close to it so what does it matter, you are making far to big a deal about this
You did it too. But what I want to know is how do you date for 2 years before going exclusive?
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