Should I apologize for being pushy?

[Anonymous]

So I know this guy and saw him at a bar last weekend. I had had a bit too much to drink and think I probably acted a little bit too pushy and clingy. I asked him to dance with me quite a few times and gave him a lot of flirty looks. Eventually I did get him to dance with me and we did make out. During the night I told him twice to contact me sometime and I used the word "please" the second time (though I kinda hope he didn't hear that..) and the way he replied "okay.." made me sure he's never going to text me or anything.

I feel quite embarrassed for acting the way I did. I don't really know this guy too well (and don't even have his phone number) and I wouldn't really want him to think I'm normally like that.

So should I apologize for my behavior the next time I see him?

[Stacyzee]

Totally not, you were drunk which is totally understandable.

When you see him just make a friendly conversation, and just say something like "Jeez, I drank a little bit to much last time."

Drink very little and show him the real you, that you are totally different.

Im sure he'll figure out you were only that way because of the alcohol (try not to come on too strong this time.)

[XRabbitHeartX]

No don't do that. I don't think your behavior qualifies as being overly pushy. Don't be insecure like that or beat yourself up about this. I'm sure if he really did like you he wouldn't be put off by a little flirty behavior . What would have been bad was if you kept asking him out on dates or tried getting HIS number the whole time. That would have been pushy. Don't worry about!

[Anonymous]

No, either he wasn't interested enough to begin with or he lost your number.