We obviously don't know how the fight REALLY began and who's fault it was for instigating in the first place, but all things considered I'm sorry to say that I think you were the one who took it too far. Notice that your husband insulted your mom and your sister, but NOT you. Yet your comeback was a direct insult to him. It would have been a different story if you thought of some other thing to say but instead what you said was about him. And of all things to say, it had to be the one that really gets us guys. You're lucky he didn't comment on anything about your appearance (basing off of what you've posted, of course). I don't know... hopefully you guys will have had enough time and space apart that you can finally come back together and make up.
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I think that it is very clear that you took it too far, and I think you know it. You came online and asked your question hoping that someone would tell you you were acting rationally, but deep down you feel really bad about it. And you should.
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Read that. I know it is long, but if you want to make things better between you and your husband (and you should want that, since you married him because you loved him) it shouldn't be a problem to find the time to read it.
Please, read it. For you, your husband, your marriage, and the love that created it.
Well, he kind of took it too far by bringing your family into it. That was unnecessary. Also, the fact that you made that shot at him, that was pretty bad too. There's nothing worse than telling a man that his dick is too small and he's incapable of pleasing you.
Overall, it's both of your guys faults (you both took it too far). What you guys need to do is to both sit down and talk with out making such low shots at one another. If you don't talk it out, he's going to stay in the hotel room and you're both just going to stay mad at one another. Hope this helped
It seems that you both said some pretty hurtful things and him critisizing* your family is way too far! I think that you should talk to him about it and see what he says. If he's a real man than he will appreciate it and you can work it out. But if he's being a jerk about it than wait for him to come to you. He will realise what he has lost soon enough.
You both did. Once a discussion or argument lowers itself to personal attacks then it no longer becomes constructive and turns into a bashing contest. Obviously, you weren't arguing about cows or sluts or small dicks so you both went too far.
If his dick is a decent size then he knows it, as long as you tell him you didn't mean it then I'm sure he'll be fine. but he should apologise about the family name calling
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I think you both did.
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