Questions: Relationships

27F, I feel like my life has changed over the past year nothing drastic but things aren’t the same with people I’ve known. No personality changes, more like I don’t speak with them as often because they’re busier, other changes aside that which aren’t boding well with me. Ever since I came back from a concert 3 weeks ago, I’ve been in this rut where I feel so dismal knowing there’s nothing else to look forward to. I’ve worked from home since earlier this year and I think I hate the job, the duties itself. I’ve called out sick the past 2 days even after this past long weekend and this isn’t me I really hope I snap out of it. I’d like to believe this feeling is also linked with my menstruation cycle but I’m not too sure. I hope I’m overthinking but I just lay in bed and feel like I kind of hate my life at the moment, I quit my last job almost a year ago and can’t afford to live off my savings again since that’s what supported me up till I got this current job. I’m too grown for this, this would’ve been more suitable back when I was in college and still living at home. I’m a very anxious person who’s normally cynical but it’s at another level atm

When you go out and buy someone a drink what do you expect from them?

Assume the context is you guys were "talking", which means that you guys liked each other and weren't exclusive yet but weren't interested in other people. What I mean by each option:

• Cut them off: completely stop initiating contact, reply when needed but don't initiate contact
• Pull away also: give them space, act how they are acting, be a little more distant when they come back
• Pretend you didn't realize: act completely normal
• Ask what happened: present your findings and ask why they haven't been the same