Polls: Relationships

I think if someone is deceitful and slimy enough to cheat on their partner, then they’re gonna lie and be deceitful to you too.

I was friends with this guy who wasn’t cheating on anyone himself but he was fucking with someone who was in a relationship. And he found it funny that they were cheating with him

I didn’t respect what he was doing but I minded my business and continued to be his friend.
Then I found out he fucked my partner too and went around bragging about it 🤠🤠

So now I stay away from those who cheat/home wreck, because they have no morals. They’re gonna fuck over their friends too.

My dad likes delicate, helpless women. I do too. It's been one (of several) problems in his marriage, and he tells me that he hopes I find someone competent and independent. But the problem is that doesn't interest me at all.

Obviously my dad is well-intentioned when giving me this advice. But I know my dad and I have our differences. Some of the problems he has had in his relationship won't be applicable to mine, but I question if this particular problem will, too. Besides, perhaps it's the accumulation of problems that lead to the failed marriage, not this particular problem alone.

So I wonder, am I a fool if I disregard his advice, and follow my heart to marry a sweet helpless girl? Or would I be narrow-minded to think my dad's relationship inevitably will reflect mine if I do? What do you think?

You are single, you are dating, you are in a committed relationship, you are in a relationship that's breaking up, you're married, you're divorced. . . but "it's complicated?" Does that mean you have no idea whether your partner agrees that you are in a relationship, you are playing that silly break-up/make-up game and you can't be honest about what's happening with your partner, you're too embarrassed to explain what kind of a mess you've created, or something else?

Have you ever referred to your status as "it's complicated?" If so, what does it mean for you?

Is it better to put up emotional walls and avoid interaction with the opposite sex to protect from a possible rejection?

I was listening to a show talking about time travel... how it seems possible to travel to the future, but not so easy to travel to the past.

Do you think you can change the future, even in a small way?

Sure seems to me you can. It may be the one thing we control... the now and future.

Each engagement and choice you make, the words you use and how you respond, is creating the future at minimum. Maybe changing the course of someone's life... including your own.

Could it be sending the path of future in some direction.

They get nothing for themselves but they ruin others lives

Do you wish you married someone you knew when you were both young and had those roots from your childhood/adolescence?