Polls: Relationships

Would you marry a black woman if the opportunity was there? And by black women, I mean darkskin women (like in the picture or darker) and not like Zendaya or Meghan Markle. Like a real black woman.

• The two meet while one (male) is on a work trip (May)
• Maintain a long distance communication for two months (May & June)
• Go on a destination vacation together, become exclusive, (female) quits job and moves herself and her son across the country to be with a man she has only known for two months (July)
• All three move out of the initial one bedroom condo and into a new house, met his entire family (August)
  
  Is this relationship likely to last?
  Up until this point it has made it to six months (July-December)

A friend told me it's taking me too long cause I haven't been in a relationship for 4 years now. I've dated people and have been in situationship but never committed to a relationship after 2019.

Some men think that's being successful and scoring gfs but is it? You're only getting the person base on lying.

The lies can a woman lying about being a virgin or her past to eventually settle down or a man lying about wanting marriage to get a girlfriend but he never intents to propose.

Did you really succeed if you had to lie to be accepted in the relationship? Is lying to get what you want really a success? The person you lied to isn't dating the real you, they're still being with a liar; with a false image you presented to them, with something that doesn't exist.

I'm still breaking up but would you want to know the truth or not?

What if I'm breaking up just to be with someone else? Would you want to know that's the reason I'm leaving you? Or should someone include other reasons in a break-up?

Not sexual movements. Just having fun with someone who just happens to be good looking to your significant other.

My boyfriend and I broke up several days ago. We were together for 3 yr. I suspected that he’s been seeing this girl we work with and called him out on it. No one knows we’re together because it’s a sticky situation with the hierarchy of our positions. They seemed to be flirting and he was suddenly being rude to me. He has a track record for not being honest with me and so I am already on edge about how close their relationship is. They always sit together and share food, etc. and the day that ended it, he basically ignored me and told me he doesn’t care how I feel. So I walked into their office and told him I’m upset and that I’m done right in front of the two of them. And walked out. This made him so mad that he dumped me. A day or two later, I message him how hurt I felt and he simply replied that I’m too much stress in his life and that he’ll never get back with me ever again. Basically he’s over me. A few days go by and no contact. I get to work and I see him but try to avoid him because I’m heartbroken. He says hi to my colleagues and I. I said nothing. He came back when they walked out of the room, he put his hand on my shoulder and said… I’ll be the bigger person, good morning. I just said hi back. An hr or two later, I asked him if we could talk later. His reply “sure but it won’t change anything.” And I was taken back. I told him that I’m not trying to get him back or beg him to be with me. And then I left. This made me sick to my stomach and to make matters worse, he again is openly flirting with her. So I told him I’m sick and need to go home. He said ok. He came over to me and put his hand on my back and rubbed it saying he hopes that I feel better. It was awkward and totally mixed signals. I finished up my work and left. He texts me, “I hope you feel better” and on top of it, he casually messaged my sister whom he rarely talks to. I’m not sure what to make of this. He tells me he’s done but his gestures and talking to my sister. What do u think?

My mom and I got the most recent booster today, within an hr of getting it I find out my brother tests positive. He’s 17, my other brother is 16, I’m 28, my mom/her boyfriend are in their early 50’s & we all live in the same house. No pre-existing health issues except my mother is pretty obese, I guess she’d fall in the morbid category. And my mom and I have a concert scheduled this Friday, she has another one next Monday. If I have to go out again I’ll be wearing a mask.