Some men think that's being successful and scoring gfs but is it? You're only getting the person base on lying.
The lies can a woman lying about being a virgin or her past to eventually settle down or a man lying about wanting marriage to get a girlfriend but he never intents to propose.
Did you really succeed if you had to lie to be accepted in the relationship? Is lying to get what you want really a success? The person you lied to isn't dating the real you, they're still being with a liar; with a false image you presented to them, with something that doesn't exist.