Would you marry a gay person that has the potential to be a great partner and parent?

[Lookingforthetruth]

See above froe example. Your husband is a gay man that will provide for you and the kids and be a good husband/father. He will give his best foot forward when having sex with you. However pare of the trade off, he is allowed to have a side relationship with a man.

Similar for guys, would you marry a gay woman that will bear your children, have great sex with you and be a great romantic partner and mother? Trade off being, she is allowed to have a side relationship with another woman.

Yes

No

[MCheetah]

Hell no! But this happens with gay women more than you think. The lesbians who go by the superfluous term "bi." They are queer females who will use men for money and physical protection, even though they openly admit to being into women and wanting women for sex/relationships. And some saaaaaad pathetic men, will still be with openly queer women anyway, which is as emasculating and cuckoldish, as you can get.

It's just rare for straight women to be with gay men like this; it's usually "pansexual" men being with queer ("bi") women who don't/can't like men. So many gross men on this very post even admit they'd willingly be abused and exploited by a queer woman who openly admits to wanting to be with women instead, and it blows my mind how men can be so gross and self-loathing like that! Hell, that "Apple" chick on here is exactly this; a lesbian using a pathetic man for resources.

I don't get it, and after asking many questions on this site about it, I still can't understand it.

[snowboarder720]

I’m a bit confused by your question and question details.
You’re asking if I would marry a gay person and then in the details you’re asking if I’m okay with them having a side relationship. Being married to a gay person doesn’t automatically mean a polyamorous relationship; those are two very different things.
Also if they will marry me and have sex with me while having a homosexual relationship with their same sex… that would make them bisexual.


Overall I’m just confused on what you’re really trying to ask. Would I marry a gay person? No. They wouldn’t be sexually attracted to me if they were. Would I marry someone and agree for them to have a side homosexual relationship? No, I’d like my marriage to be fully committed to the other person and be there for each other when it really counts.

[Lookingforthetruth]

Have you ever seen the film "I love you phillip Morris"?

[jorfan3]

My husband and I had a really cute conversation: we both decided that if the other person turned out to be gay, we'd stay married 😆 we're best friends! We just wouldn't have sex anymore.

[dustybiker]

I’m sure that works just fine for some people. I wouldn’t judge them.

[jshm2]

Ehhhh. Newsflash, kiddo. He isn't "gay" - in fact he isn't even bisexual.

A lot of people band around the misnomers as it's trendy.

Even read about a couple of fuckwits who claimed they couldn't have a baby as they were "lesbian" - it was a straight couple.

[DavidRaul]

When you are stating the fact that he/she will be a great romantic partner and would have great sex while being gay, you are obviously stating that they are bisexual. As a straight man, would you have sex with a man just to make him happy? No, right. So a gay man and woman wouldn't be interested to have sex with the opposite gender

[MysteriousDarkness]

If a guy is 100% gay he is not sexually attracted to women. If he is able to have amazing sex with women and be with a guy he is bisexual. If a woman is 100% a lesbian she is not sexually attracted to guys. If she is able to have amazing sex with guys and be with a woman she is bisexual.

[Lookingforthetruth]

gay people can fake sexual attraction to the opposite sex. It's called being in the closet.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Lookingforthetruth
That ends up eating away at them.

[FinalFantasyBro]

Realistically no I don't have a problem with gay people but I ain't interested in men romantically so I wouldn't date a guy while a lesbian and I a straight man wouldn't even be a thing because we both like women unless she is interested in doing a three person relationship with a bisexual woman than maybe.

[lalaloveee]

[DizzyDesii]

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[AdithyaR]

Absolutely not. I've got enough self esteem issues as it is, I don't need a confirmation of the fact that my partner isn't actually attracted to me and in fact is attracted to this other person.
I'm not comfortable with open relationships either.

[SamK20]

I'm horrified every time I see crap like this.

How do people even begin to entertain the idea that any such thing would ever be ok?

[4ngelic]

no they gotta love me and be attracted to me, and not fuck someone else

[exitseven]

Maybe if she was Bi an we had threesomes with some other woman i might consider it.

[Drumlin2001]

They'd have to be bi surely. Otherwise it wouldn't work.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

If the gay person is a compatible bisexual woman, yes. She must be OK with polygyny, though, as I want to marry Noura, who I reckon ain't bisexual.

[worldscolide]

No... Because im not gay.. No straight person would.

[Quigly]

If they are gay it means they don't even like the other person. They are just users, Users are just out for sex, it's rape.

[suzzieQ]

Thats not how being gay works...

[Quigly]

@suzzieQ Yes, That's how perversion works.

[suzzieQ]

How would you know are you gay?,

[Quigly]

@suzzieQ I know the definition of perversion. I have eyes, That's what they get arrested for when they get with minors for sex. They are just out for the exploitation other people for their own selfish gratification.

[suzzieQ]

Which definition because there are two main ones. Are you trying to imply that homosexuality is a perversion? Because that would be rather silly considering it has been traced back to the beginning of man and has been documented in over 1500 different species.

[Quigly]

@suzzieQ Pedophilia is linked to homosexuality. We know this because we actually keep a list of names of sexual Predators. It's not a myth, The entire San Fransisco gay mens Choir is on the list.

[suzzieQ]

How is it linked to homosexuality? What data correlates the two? What study?

[Quigly]

@suzzieQ I just told you, Read it again.

[suzzieQ]

And I am asking for the proof. Show me the study. You're so adamant, so it shouldn't be difficult to provide the sources for your stance.

[Quigly]

@suzzieQ The proof is the sexual predators list. Go look at the list. The list is proof.
You're like an Ostrich with his head in a hole. Get your head out of the hole and look.

[suzzieQ]

What list are you talking about? Site your sources. Because according to the data of convicted pedophiles more than 95% are heterosexual.
www.washingtonpost.com/.../

[Quigly]

@suzzieQ You obviously didn't read that link you posted. Read the response below by Timothy J Daily

Individuals from the 1 percent to 3 percent of the population that is sexually attracted to the same sex are committing up to one-third of the sex crimes against children. A study in the Journal of Sex Research found that although heterosexuals outnumber homosexuals by a ratio of at least 20 to 1, homosexual pedophiles commit about one-third of the total number of child sex offenses.

The evidence shows a direct correlation between homosexuality and pedophilia.

[suzzieQ]

Actually, I did... "Scientific research finds that pedophilia is a disease separate from and in no way related to homosexuality. In fact, research demonstrates that most pedophiles (more than 95 percent) are heterosexually oriented."

According to a 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey, 90 percent of perpetrators of sexual violence against women are men. Moreover, when men are victims of sexual assault (an estimated one in 71 men, and one in six boys), 93 percent reported their abuser was a man.

If it were just a correlation between homosexuality and sex abuse, we would see a significantly higher rate of homosexual women committing sex crimes that heterosexual women... we dont.

According to the FBI and several clinical studies published in reputable journals, gay men aren’t more likely to sexually abuse children. In fact, the largest database of child molesters in the country shows that those who molest boys are over three times more likely to be heterosexual in their adult relationships than homosexual.

[Quigly]

@suzzieQ The scientific data shows that there are far more heterosexual people in society.
Scientifically, the percentage of pedophiles in the gay community are far higher.
Than the percentage of pedophiles in the heterosexual community. BY A LOT

The problem is that Your numbers are not scientific

When women commit Pedophilia, it is considered that the boy is lucky and not a victim.
You have to account for sexism in society.

[suzzieQ]

What data? Cite your sources

[Quigly]

@suzzieQ It's public information, Your laziness is not convincing.

[suzzieQ]

And you have even cite your sources lol 😂

[Quigly]

@suzzieQ I did cite the source, it's the sexual predator list. You're too frightened of the truth to look at it. Bwahahaha! 🤣🤣🤣

[suzzieQ]

Were I dont see a link, just a lot of unsupported claims that you can't prove

[Guy13]

Nope, I would not.

[Anonymous]

Hmmmm. . . if they're having great sex WITH EACH OTHER, then as I understand it, that would make her husband bi -- not gay.

[Sixgunsound]

So first off that makes them bi...

[Cubus]

Yes, except side relationship

[AsaKyo]

No lmao..

[Googlemyahoo]

Whaaaa?