Polls: Relationships

I know many guys keep female friendships wether they are in a relationship or not just in case there is a chance with one of them.

Not all guys do that but a great number of men do this (keeping friendships for the chance of a possibility with them)

Well I am in a relationship but for some reason or another we had kept breaking up and getting back together. Now he says it's very serious and wants to make a family with me and just be serious with me.

I have one guy friend who said he would marry me, I keep in touch with him and my boyfriend does not know about him, but today it kind of slipped out into a conversation and he got mad with me and wants to know what i talk about with him and why i'm even talking to him in private chats etc. and I felt scared to I deleted and removed everything about this friend because i don't want to ruin what I have now..

but I somehow feel it's wise to still keep him around not cheating but just in case my boyfriend and i split, i have someone as possibility.. I don't like to start from scratch looking for someone and this guy could be back up

it sounds bad but really would you guys do this?
even if it sounds bad, maybe it's a smart thing to do?
I'm not going to talk or flirt with him but just keep him as contact/friend

What do you guys think?
Advice?

We just started dating almost two weeks ago and we have been talking to each other for a month so not long we met through tinder i am 18 and he is 22 and this is my first real boyfriend. This is what happend i made a new tinder and put a photo that was intentionally very ugly and i thought i looked different just to check to see if he’s there and i matched with him he was active and his bio was updated he said that his daughter was 4 instead of 3 and he also said that he was looking for friends or a relationship he also changed some of his pictures and when we matched he answered right away saying hey you look like someone so he recognized me. I decided to not stay quiet about it and i told him like wow I didn’t expect you to know it was me because that picture was intentionally so ugly and if we are a couple why do you still have tinder? He replied saying that he had people of both genders and swiped right to everyone because he wants friends, and then i told him but it said that you want a relationship too? And then he said that he didn’t update his profile much even though it surely was different than last time and i told him that it seemed pretty updated I told him that if we’re a couple he shouldn’t have tinder He said that he would never cheat on me that he’s not that kind of person and he said that he never meant to hurt me and he said that he deleted it too he said “I deleted it. Done” What do you think should i trust him? Should i give him a chance? Right now i refuse to talk for today

My boyfriend has a real issue with my past and always has but still continued to be with me, ok yeah i guess my body count of 15 isn't great but his is over 150. Anyway i am always open and honest with him and always get him involved in my conversations i am having with my friends. It came up where a friend of mine is talking to two guys, he then started saying my group of friends are whores and it's disgusting , then started to get more and more wound up and was like you and your friends are the biggest group of whores i know. Is this a heat of the moment thing or what? I was in utter shock, i gave him no fuel for the fire to speak to me like that. I just feel crappy and humiliated that someone who "loves" me can speak to me like that.

So my ex boyfriend who was abusive and cheated on me with my sister is who this post is about. About a year in our relationship he began wetting the bed and I was very supportive. Even though he put his hands on me and treated me like crap. As a last ditch effort I went to his mom about it who then told me that he did this in school and she had a bunch of tests ran with no issues at all causing this. Finally he admitted to her that he wanted to wear diapers again and had been wetting on purpose. She didn't let him and through the years found wet diapers he had gotten hidden in his room. After talking to her I wasn't going to even bring it up. Hoping if that was the case he would tell me. Then I caught him with my sister. He begged me not to leave and so a light went off. I told him I would stay if he told me why he had wet the bed and that he better not lie bc I spoke with his mom. So in tears he told me he wanted to wear diapers and be treated like a baby. I agreed, but on my terms. I was in charge and if he wanted to be treated this way it would be a constant thing. Even in front of friends, family, and strangers. He was worried, but agreed. So I began taking action. With his mom's help our spare bedroom became his nursery. With a crib. High chair and changing table. I began taking him in public in his diapers, onesie, and pacifier. He had to use his diapers. The toilet was off limits. My friends often came over, teasing him. We aren't together anymore. I moved on. He now lives at his mom's again and is still in diapers 24/7. I go from time to time to talk to her and check on him for a laugh.
Seeing how abusive he was, cheated on me, and lives like this with all his relatives and people in town knowing what should I do?

Is it real or not real?
In my opinion it doesn't exist, you either give it your all and stay with that person or you dont, you dont just stop loving someone in a single day, if you stopped loving them you didn't really truly love them at all.

I hear about couples that think it’s ok to go through their BF/GFs phone but I think it’s completely wrong and would be mortified if someone went through mine. I message other people, male and female and those messages may contain personal thoughts or feelings I don’t want to share with others. Phones are very personal and I think nobody has the rights to access that including a partner.

Feel free to detail why you chose your option.

We're talking someone who is damaged from their past relationships. Had an open conversation with a group of friends of mine. Apparently, girls who went through so much in their failed relationship that the more 'damaged' they get, the more they are considered crazy for acting up due to past drama.

So guys are starting to avoid those considered damaged because they don't have the patience to deal with them. So are they basically doomed?

I have 36DD breasts. I actually just got measured again today, and even though I've lost 15lbs. since my last measurement in the summer, I'm actually a 36DDD. However, I can still fit DD depending on where I get it.

I'm only 29. I haven't had any children yet, either. But I'm also only 5'3. I want to feel attractive, and my breasts do not make me feel that way because of their size.

The problem, though, is my boyfriend likes how large they are. I asked him if he'd care if they were smaller, and he said he would. He wouldn't leave me or anything, but he did say that really enjoyed their size. What he doesn't know is that I asked him because I've been considering breast reduction surgery.

I technically qualify, and I want to meet with a plastic surgeon. My boyfriend doesn't know, though. Would you support your girlfriend if she wanted to have breast reduction surgery?

I hate having to carry them i usually have a backpack or a fanny pack with me i wear across my chest or waist, i hate purses since they are so uncomfortable to carry around.