Polls: Relationships

I posted this earlier but people were mad that I was a little too lenient with their details. So I deleted the post and made this one using different pictures (besides 'Belle' since it's the only photo I have of her) and fake names. And also included my physical and personality reasons for my hesitance in all of their descriptions. YES they are all of age, YES I do know this for a fact.

Girls, would you ever share your boyfriend? This is all hypothetical.

This is something called a harem, where it's a group of girls sharing one guy.

And to my girlfriends on GaG, you don't need to answer this question.

My question is simple & open for this discussion of course.

You fall in love with a friend of yours, you let them know how you really feel in the last couple of months, but they never thought of you being more than just a friend, & they definitely don't feel the same way too, specially when you know you almost have 0% chance of being more than friends. Even if that feeling has been for almost a year now. And it's almost impossible thinking about that person as just friends anymore no matter how hard you try to convince yourself there isn't anything else.

You love & care so much about that special person it seems impossible to let go. What would you do in this case?

Please consider that staying friends with someone you love might have several consequences on your futur life when being in love with someone that hard.

1- it will eat you alive frome the inside knowing you have no chance of becoming more than just friends.

2- you'll be hurting yourself everyday specially when the day comes & you find them with someone else so it might kill you emotionally.

3- you will be hurting only yourself thinking about that person everyday & keeping them all the time in you mind & heart when that person barely showing signs that they care about you not even 10% of what you're showing to them.

4- if you stayed friends it will be so hard for you to find someone else & if you did, you might ruin that relationship because of your love to your friend.

5- this friendship causes more harm than good

Some people have an expectation of having sex on a first date, and to them, this question may seem silly. . . but I don't think that is most of us. Some people will not have sex until their wedding night and they will think this question is over the top, but again, that is not most of us.

You are dating and at some point, you want your relationship to include sex, so what do you do to make that happen? Talk to your partner? Get "vigorous" when making out? Wait for them to say that they are ready? What makes it happen?

You constantly find yourself back on dating sites trying

As much as you would like to give up on dating, you just can't

Still hoping to find that potential partner regardless of how many times you've been hurt and whatnot

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23, never even hugged a girl.

5' 7" manlet as well.

Give up hope and LDAR or no?

I put "ugly" in quotation marks because that word is highly subjective
I hear people complain how decent looking guys are dating average or even below average looking women and saying that they're betas who gave up on looking for the prettiest woman, but I have a problem with that. I actually prefer the weird, awkward quiet girl who's not bad looking but never been given a chance for a relationship, because I feel like those women would value the relationship more since they know how hard it was to get in one. Plus, some of the most attractive women I've met were horrible girlfriends. They felt entitled to everything under the sun, they would be very abusive to their boyfriends and even cheat on him and even trade up for a better partner because they thought relationships were that disposable because they knew that they could just replace him with abother thirsty guy because they're all in her contacts.

So yeh am hairy AF, never really tired shaving have a bad memory of seeing my dad crying from having he's back waxed.

Would you?

So, maybe it’s just me being unreasonable or it’s something deeper, but I just don’t feel as into a woman romantically if she’s been with a lot of partners as opposed to a few or no partners at all. Maybe it’s just me being selfish and wanting her all to myself or maybe there’s more to it than just that. I can't really understand how some men can romantically be with a woman who has been with a bunch of other men. I mean, I would probably understand more if you wanted to use her for just the night for a one night stand or hookup, but falling in love with her? Getting into a relationship? Having children with her? I can’t really wrap my head around that. I don’t feel like I can love a woman deep if she’s had an extensive past of being with a bunch of people, nor do I feel she can love me to the fullest extent as well. I don’t think it’s insecurity, at least not fully. I think it’s something in my ape brain telling me that a woman who has been with a lot of partners is a red flag. I think it’s something biological, but my current intellect is not up to par for explaining/articulating my feeling, biologically.

I just feel like the bonding between me and woman is different if all we have to go by is one another, as opposed to having a bunch of partners before the “one.” I think something happens in our neural circuitry that might make it harder to love someone to the core, to be loyal, and to respond to sex differently. At some point, we’ll just feel as if the person we’re currently we is just another body or number. Good news is, there’s apparently a lot of women who share the same sentiments as me so there’s a good chance of finding a woman to get into a relationship with that has the same standing as I.

I should probably edit this when I have more information or my new thoughts come into my head, but right now, this is just on the top of my head. Any biology experts, chime in.