Say your SO put on 100 lbs suddenly. Do you think they would carry it well? Do they carry it in your favorite spots? Do you hate the fact they even gained weight and will you help them get rid of it or not?
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You’d say your attraction to them has not changed even the tiniest
You’d say you like how much squishier they got overall, all in the right places (or specific places)
You’d say you like how jiggly and soft their belly is now
You’d say they look pretty good with some weight but maybe it was a bit much
You’d say they put on way too much weight, but you’d try to help them/stay with them
You’d not deal with it and you’d find someone else who isn’t as fat
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How would you react if your SO gained 100 lbs of fat? What do you say about where their fat was put on?
My partner gained 100 lbs. At first, after 10 lbs or so, I was admittedly kind of freaked out. She wasn't eating unhealthily or depressed. She was still moderately active. She just seemed to be naturally programmed to be a bigger woman past her teen years. I know some people insist that if you eat right and exercise, then you will be thin. But I simply haven't observed that to be true. I think human bodies and minds must be more complex and varied than that.
Anyway, after a while, I really thought about how *I* felt about it -- not how people said I should feel about it -- and I was realized I was actually totally loving the new curves and softness everywhere. An attraction awakened in me that I never knew was there. She became so much fuller and softer to hold. I actually love the fat everywhere from fuller cheeks, to arms you can use as pillows when you cuddle, to a plump tummy that fills your arms, to hips that scream womanhood, all the way down to cute chubby toes. So, in my experience 100 lbs of fat was actually pretty sweet.
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Wow that’s practically the same things I like about someone that heavy. I like a girl who can practically be like a pillow for you lol. It is even better if they can put on all that weight and still experience minimal problems from it, because you know some girls can start expanding really big, and get very fat before only a couple problems show (like only from having to carry a huge amount of weight and jiggling body fat everywhere, think of all that fat in her belly and butt and hips jiggling every time she moved just a little)
I mean if she was super thin to start with. then do not think I would mind it all to much. provided she was generally healthy medically wise and enjoyed how she now looked.
then again if she was already a plus size to start with. I would be a bit worried for her health wise. but if she was generally healthy medically wise and enjoyed how she now looked. I think I would be ok with it.
then again you do not typically gain that much over night. so could just ask them what might have made them start doing something like that. stress from many possible different things. might be the most common answer however.
so could work with them to lower or relieve some of the stress they have on there shoulders. in order to help them not get that far in the first place.
You'd have to have like a thyroid condition to gain that much weight that fast. I wouldn't even let my partner get to being a 100 lbs. Overweight before I'd intervene to help them get healthy again.
With the way I eat, I can't see a girl gaining weight like that when around me. Gaining weight like that wouldn't work for me in terms of sexual attraction. I would help them though of course. I would have helped them even if they gained 10 pounds though.
She would be 230lbs at 5'4", YIKES! haha I would make a diet plan for her and make sure has a healthy exercise routine. i would also make sure she sleeps 8 hours a day. Probably take her to a hormone specialist make sure its not due to some sort of imbalance
I woudl work hard to make her healthy.
Maybe 30lbs+ I wouldn't have a problem with. But any more than that its a problem
At about 10 or 15lbs id say something and it would never get to 100 lbs id be gone. Any girl that sticks around with me has to be involved in fitness and healthy eating. I dont eat junk food i eat certain amounts of fruits and veggies and protein every day and i go to the gym and am very active. So if she's not involved with that stuff with me she won't be my girlfriend for long. And if she is there is no way she would ever be fat.
At 10 lbs gain she would have received a clear comment already. 12 lbs: first and last 'warning' I'd be long gone before she even gets close to a 100 lbs gain.
@PinkMichae That would be extremely sad. And it will really put me into a dilemma. I had a girlfriend once who indeed gained a bit more than was good for her. We were basically ok with each other, but still - 'subconsciously' I got detached from her. Each time when I was heading into a new relationship, I communicated my weight preference: I am a 'lightweight' myself - because of health and life style considerations; I would want someone who is like-minded. My body is a reflection of my thinking... in the majority of 'cases'; with an 'allowance' for exceptions. I agree that ONLY looking at the body with 'beauty ideals' in mind would be 'shallow' - but with my answer here I tried to be 'honest' about myself. Put it like this: 'Reasoning' and 'Feeling' sometimes (or often?) just does not WANT to work with each other; we cannot always influence that.
Being overweight is a huge turnoff for me. I know it’s harder for women to maintain a healthy weight than guys but it just looks so unattractive to me. If I love them I will stay with them but she would have to try losing the weight.
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