How to be successful in EVERYTHING - (Faith + Money + Relationships + Achievement + Health)

[jennifer_bloom]

1) Trust in the Invisible

I find that maintaining my candidacy for relationships causes me to trust God - cause men and woman aren't always transparent - if a guy goes two days without texting you - are you going to panic and beg them to talk? I trust in my belief they still like me - even if they don't shower me with constant attention - In School - I believe I'm capable of greatness - even if people tell me I'm not - In Church I believe I deserve to be there - even when I was a new believer and everybody was trying to get me kicked out for being too problematic - In friendship - I believe I deserve respect - even if the friends I have make more money or are more hard working than me and tell me I'm lower than them - I cut them off - even if I know I might not know who can replace them because I trust in ideas and beliefs and divinities and not in people

2) Prime Yourself

When I was in school - if I thought an assignment was too hard - I wouldn't do a bad job just to get it done - I would sit in my room and think and reflect and think and reflect and scrutinize for 2 hours before doing the assignment since I refuse to do an assignment in a low quality way - When I realized I didn't feel comfortable with God in my life - I didn't abandon God or force myself to seek Him - I tried to deal with the sins in my life so I could increase my level of comfort enough to seek him - When I was too tired from work to work out - I didn't give up on weight loss completely - I just drank fat burning teas so I would use up more calories at work - When I didn't have the confidence to date guys - I didn't date a guy who could accept my low confidence - I instead avoided men altogether and did motivational videos and inspirational books all day long to build confidence - I also said positive affirmations and did things to build up confidence like study very hard so I could brag about my straight A's

3) Don't Compensate Unless Your Life Depends on it

I spent 3 years trying to figure out what salt symbolized in the bible - I asked people - and they told me - but I wasn't satisfied with their answer - so I kept seeking and seeking and seeking and seeking - when I found it - even though the time it took might seem wasted - it was a key in my life that unlocked other doors for me and enabled me to walk into spiritual faculties I previously did not know how to get to - I didn't accept the simple answer just because I was too comfortable and impatient to figure it out for myself - Don't accept a flawed man thinking you can change him if he isn't giving you the comfort and loyalty you believe you deserve and want - Don't accept a response to your question you know isn't perfect just because you don't feel like getting the correct answer - Don't accept a personality trait in yourself you do not like - just because you want to please your contacts - When I was working hard and not getting good results in school - I didn't give up and slack off - I worked harder and harder and harder - and I ended up getting top grades - my professor says I could have possibly broken an academic record by getting the highest grade ever recorded in one of my classes

[NewZion]

Amen

[Edanurus]

I find this to be a very imature look on things. Want to know the true way to be successful in everything? Tough it doesn't exist failure is part of life and if anything our failures teach us more.

But to be a bit more specific
1. Trust in the invisible - Terrible advice, what you're saying is have faith that everythings going to be ok. That may make you feel better at the time but you need to look at the situation and base you're idea on that. You can't just get what you want by hoping it will turn out right.
2. Prime yourself - Ok this could be good advice if you're a fortune teller but 6 months ago I joined a job in finance, in hindsite that was a bad idea but how could I ever prime myself for covid 19 to happen and my job becoming redundant?
3. ... - not sure what the title of this one meant but to me this shows how you weren't successful for a long time. Sometimes you need to let go of things because they are a waste, and you need the foresight to do that, this ties into the first one really because you're suggesting to believe in something intangible, that hard work will get you where you want. This is just false and a point that people are struggling with. Not everyone will achieve their dreams, for many I feel their misery comes from that, they need to learn that we have a finite time in this world and sometimes what we want to do isn't the same as what makes us happy.

[Regmorus]

Exactly right and exactly wrong. Hers was onesided. You completed it with your onesidedness. Her life has shown the first ideas work, your life has shown the second ideas work. The real advice is: know about all ways and choose the one most suitable for the current situation - and what way you choose depends on who you are. It might be logic, if that's you, it might be divine power, if that is you, it might be gut and whatever else if that is you. By different people different things.

[misterbater]

Success in any field comes from one thing and one thing alone. Discipline. People will tell you all sorts of things like passion etc. But that's not it. I love physics and my friend hates it. Yet he scores higher. Not because of any passion bs. Passion makes you enjoy what you definitely. But how successful you are that solely depends on how hard you work which depends on how disciplined you are. And discipline comes either from will power (which most of us lack) or from good parenting and proper guidance. Being blessed with caring parents and teachers isn't so easy either.

[Regmorus]

To project yours on everyone can be a mistake. Very often it is. "How to be succesfull in everything" should be better replaced by something like "important abilities to be sucessful in everything".

[captain_voidwalker]

This is simple. One golden rule. Always do what mathematically checks out. Buying a house do the math. Picking a career do the math. Going on a date... don't why you ask simple do the math

[elduderinosupreme]

I have found faith to be nothing but lies and deceit. Therefore I do not participate in such concepts.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

That little voice saying there's still hope. . . It's lying

[eschneider]

If you're a man, avoiding a relationship and marriage helps a lot.

[LEADFOOTboi]

i gotta take some of this advice...

[belle_kai]

Stop trying so hard

[SecretGardenBlood65]

Nice take..