
I’ve been researching an idea for months now at an scholastic level and for years at a professional level and for decades at an emotional level
The idea is positive psychology
When I was in university my dad tried to motivate me by telling me I was stupid and would starve to death if I did not study like my life depended on it
My fear of starvation led me into the best university in the country - but once I got in I did the bare minimum and flunked out
Reason being my dad motivated me with the fear of failing grades and not with the respect for high grades
My second time in university was different - at this point - I had been for 3-5 years studying a verse in Deuteronomy that said I was meant to be a leader and not a follower
I started off studying 40 hours a week part time and failing
but over time I improved
After 5 years in school I was getting perfect As without a single A- even while enrolled in school full time
And I went from getting failing grades at the beginning of my university career to getting high 90s and 100s on my essay assignments
This is the thing
If you want to focus on hell you will become more demonic because you are focused on the negative psychology of antis and disses and lessnesses
But if instead you focus on positive psychology - you getting straight As / you having more than one kid / you planting gardens / you adopting pets / you preparing meals for your friends / your kissing your nieces and nephews
Than not only will you escape hell
But you will go to heaven too
You cannot fear the love of God into a persons heart
Love comes by focusing on God and on serving the world and sometimes even on serving ourselves
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