How to deal with unloveable people when your religious

[jennifer_bloom]

I find if somebody is so obviously unfair that loving them seems harder than climbing Mount Everest,

Then: Don’t contort your emotions or twist your mind into something it can’t accept to love them.

Instead, focus on understanding, gaining insight into their needs and difficulties, methodologically forcing yourself to reposition your emotion stance of attack, and seek to neutralize your anger, not by moral or legal compromise but by redirecting your aggression into a neutral or ignorant space.

Reassure yourself that God will compensate you for this injustice and that you don’t need validation or good conduct from them. Place yourself so high in God that you can pity your adversary that they do not understanding good behaviour is more beneficial and pity them that they are further from God than you. Also pity them because they do not know the heavenly bliss that you do. View them as blind children too ignorant to avoid banging into the wall when they walk, and acknowledge their limited good qualities while refusing to celebrate their bad ones.

This is how you deal with an unlovable person: When love is impossible, empathize and respect and acknowledge and accommodate instead of loving them.

[LemiaOfTheCodes]

Thanks to the brillient mytake.

[ScotishLegend]

Thank you for a nice read.

[es20490446e]

They are not my adversaries. I can still do whatever I want, including deciding they aren't good candidates for a particular endeavour with me.

Fixing them is out of my scope. That should be done by themselves, and perhaps with the help of a psychologist or coach.

[jimmy2]

My heart went out to an India untouchable that i could not lead to Jesus

[Horny-ashell]

I'd say thats a bit complicated since I'm spiritual. But I'd think that honesty is always the best way to handle any relationship. Hope that helps

[Longhardwood]

I do everything in my power to go out of my way to love them. I make it extremely awkward if necessary until they respond in a loving way. It can go on for years but I am determined.

[collie22]

God says we should try to love our neighbors