Have you ever seen something that should make you happy, that you know it should make you happy, but made you sad, or angry?

[Guanfei]

Today, while taking my daily walk, I passed by the church of my town. And there was a weeding there. And here when there's a weeding, the church doors are always open, and you can see inside.

I passed right at the end of it, basically when the newlyweds had their kiss, and everyone cheered and applauded.

And I know it's a happy moment, but I couldn't help feeling that annoying pinching in the heart, that sadness mixed with jealousy. And I feel bad for it.

[Ευδεμονια]

Oh yes, I have, and I can relate with what have you depicted in your question, since I feel the same. When I go out with friends seeing the ones of them with their partner kissing and cuddling annoys me, despite being it a nice thing for them. I care about them but I don’t endure so much that sight.

[Guanfei]

Guess it's more frequent than I thought.

[Ευδεμονια]

Oh yes. I think it has something to do with frustration and dissatisfaction about relationship status. I know myself, I’m alone by all life so it’s one of my weak points. I don’t externalise my nuisance for these things, I keep it in me, in order to not offend others but I’d like them to stop making that in front of me.

[Guanfei]

And you can't tell them because they'll think you're selfish. I know that.

[Ευδεμονια]

No no I can’t tell them because I would be ashamed of my request. My friends are good persons and would listen, I simply don’t want them to sacrifice for my sake.

[JustiReno]

There was once a debate between two ancient Jewish schools of thought … on should you call an ugly bride beautiful on her wedding day

in my opinion if you don’t think “all brides are beautiful on their wedding day” you’re just an asshole

[Brandi555]

never feel bad about how you feel. You can’t control how you feel. You need to make changes in your life. Maybe think about moving to a more populated area. Meet new people. And don’t say you can’t! You can! You just have to want it enough!

[Ruenella_]

I have.

[Ruenella_]

Weedings making me sad, too.

[Guanfei]

Any reason for that?

[Ruenella_]

The same reasons as yours.

[Guanfei]

Guess it's not that uncommon.