What was going on around you while you were dying?

[Aerissa_Jade]

This is hypothetical of course because someone who dies would not be able to answer this question.

Imagine that you did die though and you were able to answer this question, feel free to use your imagination and whatever date and events you so please.

As you lay in bed (or another location) dying, unable to communicate with those around you. You can hear what is going on, perhaps on a TV, radio or internet broadcast or simply other people talking about current events.

For me...

I can see family and loved ones in the room with me, I am unable to respond to them but I can hear everything they are saying. They are talking about me as if I am already gone, what funeral home to use, who to notify and what jobs each family member should be doing to help out afterwards.

This irritates me a little but I don't want to be angry with them, as this has been a long time coming. I forgive them all as they don't realize that I can still hear them talking even if I can't communicate with them.

I also hear on the TV about various crimes, and flooding happening due to heavy snowfall melting to quickly.

I hear a lot of crying, I am getting a lot of hugs and people coming up to whisper to me, that they love me as they are crying and burst into tears.

There is a revolving door of people coming and going, and the occasional prayers of comfort.

Many are holding my hand and talking to me in ways I wish that they had when I was healthy and strong, and a tear comes down from my left eye. As the only way I acknowledge to them, that I heard them as I am unable to move or respond any other way.

A nurse comes in and gives me morphine now and then to ease any pain and suffering I may have, which then knocks me out. I wake up hours later but my eyes are only half open and I can no longer see others, eventually I hear the talking from loved ones get softer as I fade away.

[Heterosketero]

Blackness and energetic dissipation. That is when I knew, NOTHING LIES BEYOND THIS LIFE. It was just like getting knocked out, which I did, As I bounced off a windshield on a 10 speed and flew 8 car lengths beyond into an angled stump at full downslope speed. Out for 8 days, KO. GAME OVER.

Now, having said that, let me explain my personal observation. I believe the comsmos is a singular entity from which we arise, its spark, a closed loop of energy in our nervous system. This well of contained energy becones our living soul, it is ascribed meaning, purpose and identity, within our telencepelonic material structures. So I am convinced that when we die, if die is even the right word, that energy is no longer bound, no longer a mortal coil. Energy flows, intermingles transforms instantly, can superposition anywhere in the cosmos.

So, it is nit to say that there is nothing after life, but rather, there is nothing for our idnetities to attach to in the energetic binary to our material existence. I have heard dead friends warn me in traffic when I was drunk, my mothers hand has soothed my shoulder, years after she died. But if we are all derived of the same field of energy over this material frequency, then maybe we are all there still in death. My point is, when I was landed in a coma I KNEW, at least for me, we are meant to live this one life, not to count on what may come after so as to sell ourselves short in life. We gave birth to god and we are reaponsible for god, goddess, deity, power... We are responsible for what we do in tue name of self or higher power and ultimately, we will die for it. So live well now.

Sorry if that comes off passionate, I am actually just glad to see this question and I am of course, very interested in everyones' takes on a very personal experience that is also part of the collective human condition.

[Heterosketero]

Aerissa_Jade, when you envision your family in the room, do you feel ike you are travelling along surfaces? When my mother died, I became very sensitive to energies, like electricity, lights flickering, static. I had been incare for a little less than a year prior, stage 3 lung cancer. I would wake in the night, or day, it became irrelevant for a time, and I would feel almost as if she was there, but only able to travel along surfaces, I cannot explain it. But in talking to others, I learned quite a few people experience this in grief and it started me down a path of considering my above observations. My own nde was when I was 9, so many years before. I also recovered lime nothing at all, back at school the following week. No breaks, no brain damage (maybe...)

[Bricealan]

A very introspective view for a young woman of 27, so I guess I am not alone in what you express.

I cannot imagine what it must feel like in that scenario, but, of course, ALL of us will be there at some point in time, hopefully later, rather than sooner.

I have been told that 'hearing' is the last of our senses that we lose before dying, and you may be correct in that we will all hear things.

Luckily, young woman, it will be MANY MANY years before you get the definitive answer.

"Live long, and prosper" to quote, Mr. Spock

[TonyMetal___86]

I cannot imagine myself dead with a specific scenario...
I guess that there will be people who used to really loves me and there will be fake people who will act and there will be prayers... etc

The people who thought that i'm superman and immortal will realize that i'm just a human like everyone else...

The people who thought that they cannot live without me, will learn to live on their own because if they didn't, then they will be torturing themselves till the end...

People who hates me, just won't care and will continue their lives as if i didn't existed in the 1st place...

Some people will be just neutral, may he r. i. p and that's all!

I'm someone who hates no one and will forgive the ones who were bad to me and will help the loved ones from where i'll be if i can, but the most important thing for me will be the start of new eternal life with god, i believe that there's an afterlife but experiencing it ain't just like believing in it, so i'll be very happy to be with the person that i always wished to be with him and this person is Jesus...
At least you will be loved for real and the ones who are around you are pure souls, there's no hate or pain or misery... etc

[lightbulb27]

Watch lot of "near death" videos. It seems like that. I think in essence, time stops and I reprocess life and get welcomed into after. what's going on around depends on whom is there, probably saying goodbyes.

[exitseven]

The whole world is bathed in some sort of weird light, sort of like those big sodium lamps you see in parking lots. Everything is moving in slow motion.

[Kelly6]

This I had a dream where I saw my body on bed and I was near ceiling and was trying to go to my body.

in that sleep I got high fever and my family was trying to wake me up.

very scary moment

[Heterosketero]

If it comes to you again, dont panic, work your way back to your body along surfaces, you are static.

[Heterosketero]

And yes, disembodiment is terrifying, cannot move until you breathe, cannot breathe until you move, vivid hallucinations. A lot of folks with night terrors or narileptic issues have this kind of experience.

[Agape93]

I feel a burning tempestuous wind, and feeling a red star bathe my soul. I feel my goddess welcoming me home. I feel a passionate peace.

[Rangers]

My dogs might miss me for a few days but get over it, my girlfriend would just move on and nobody else would even notice, which is fine by me.

Some warn that I may go to hell, but what they fail to realize is that I'm already in hell, and I'll find my freedom when I die hopefully as soon as possible

[Heterosketero]

Yes, it is possible that religion manufactures Hell on this Earth through the arrogance of playing gods. So to escape that in any capacity could be interpretted as aones own Heaven. If your lady keeps your dogs, she's never moved on.

[Fuentes]

I would hope my spirit hits heaven gates I could give a fuck about the rest and all the dumb family stuff. Cremate me and do away with my ashes I want no part in this world. Delete every photo and social media I ever had burn my birth certificate and social security guard I want nothing to lead back to me. Just a digital computer file of my declaration of death and my file in the governments computer and that's it. And all my money shall be passed to my daughter.

[Heterosketero]

Some of those rhings you might readily abandon would be treasure to your child. Take it from someone who lost it all, several times. It took me 23 years to get a picture of my father... I took it, I hunted him down. I picked up a treemation kit in British Columbia last year, im hoping to be a tree and yeah, little desire for the rest, Im poor, I dont have silverware to pass on. I feel as a tree I would become a place beyond myself, be the enrgy of that place. Celtic ancestry I guess...

Who am I to say, that you love your child is all that matters.

[Daniela1982]

I saw an Angel in the corner of the room who was going to escort me to Heaven when I finally kicked the bucket.

[Heterosketero]

I want to die at peace, in my sleep, unlike the other passengers in my car...

[Daniela1982]

@Heterosketero The one I heard it, "In my sleep and not crying and screaming like the passengers on my bus."

[Heterosketero]

Yassss! Hahahaha

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I image everything slowly becoming white (like when I close my eyes sometimes very suddenly except when I do that, it’s a flash that barely lasts for a second and sometimes only outlines my eyes) and hearing “you now are done with the World”.

[bean2k21]

I've died before. It was nothing like this.

[Jerre]

Everyone having sex, going for that last Big O.

[nawtee_me]

I will miss you….

[Notsoshyguy1985]

Life is but a dream