Search Results: 30 year old guys

I don't believe anyone is a loser, and I hate that term. I am just wondering, why so many people judge older virgins. Its no ones fault, dating is just hard. It's not about me, its just like some people judge others, for the dumbest things in my opinion

To me, it seems like that’s how its gonna be. Most women don’t want to date men who are at an older age and have no experience, so I get the feeling that guys in this situation are stuck in a catch-22 of going out on dates, only to be rejected every time once the woman finds out he has no experience. So basically dating really just an endless cycle of rejection for older inexperienced men.

So, this is a weird question that is in my head since quite a while now. I will be 23 on 29th of this month, and I never had a girlfriend, never had a female friend, and almost never even talked to a girl. I am not an incel, but this is because I grew up in a very conservative family, and so all these restrictions were cast on me.

So, recently I rented a small place and started living on my own. And because of this, I am now free to do whatever. However, I wanted to figure out my career for now. I suspect that I will be good to go in one year. After that, I will finally try to get a girlfriend. However, this is where my question starts.

If I start my love story at the age of 24, is it too late? What I mean is that our desire changes with time, for example, when I was a child, I liked toys, now I like anime, etc. Is this the same for love and sexual desire? When I reach the age of 30, for example, will I still care about love as much as a teenager do? Also about sex, for example, from my experience so far, I know for sure that a 18-23 year old guy love sex, does a 35 year old like sex as much as a 20 year old do? What about a 40 year old man? Does these desires go down with time? If yes, how much and when?

Thanks for reading all this. The reason I asked this is because I am really confused as to whether I should just get married to my a far relative of ours, which my parents and her parents are forcing to. (arrange marriage). Or should I try to find a girlfriend and do what I should have done when I was still a teenager? I would preferably want answers from guys, because I want to know their experience, but if a girl has a thoughtful answer, I would appreciate that too. 💕

I’m asking because someone else who’s in the same situation as me, being 30 years old and not having much experience with dating or sex asked a question if that’s a red flag and the general consensus from women was that yes it is a red flag. But the question is, does that mean its over between her and that guy or does that mean it gave her some pause and she’s skeptical, but might stay with him?

I’m just about to turn 30 and I have never had a girlfriend or dated anyone. I’ve actually only been on one date in my entire life and that was 8 years ago. I have had 2 hookups, the first one was from that date I had and the second one was with a girl who we were introduced to by our mutual friend. I just can’t let go of the idea that I’m gonna be alone forever at this point because all girls will be completely turned off by my lack of experience. If this is true, please vote that it is a dealbreaker. Not answering honestly to try and spare my feelings is not helpful.