Its not a deal breaker for me but judging from the comments you need to do more soul searching before jumping into dating.
You seem insecure and immature, not saying that in a bad way just being honest about how you project yourself.
You need to develop more deep casual relationships with others and try to avoid the girls who are just using you for sex.
You seem tk follow along things over actually being self built. Try leading yourself over following the crowds.
Thats of course if you want tk have a real relationship thats healthy.
If not well bad relationships do help with learning what you need to fix about yourself and work on when associated with a partner.
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I would rather date a 30 year old virgin who never hooked up but has been in a relationship OR a 30 year old who had sex but only in a relationship. I dont mind dating a virgin, but I want us to have similar values and a certain level of self respect. Also, if a guy/girl has never been in a relationship, its a bit of a flag to me because I’d wonder whats wrong with em (in terms of looks or personality) as to why they haven't at least been in one. At the same time, i’d take a relationshipless guy over a hoe. So 🤷♀️
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Deal breaker for me, it shows you're all play and no commitment. I like someone that can commit and learn from the experience
You’d be frowned upon because you’re a guy and the sad truth is people don’t value men’s feelings as much as women’s these days but I’m sure there will be a woman out there somewhere who will look past your experience and see you for who you are. But if you mean hookup as in “sex” I don’t think that makes you a virgin at all unless you’re talking about making out and foreplay. Anyways, 30 is a milestone but you still do have a time.. you have more time than a 30 year old woman would accordingly since women have a clock and guys don’t but just don’t lose faith. I went through hurdles to meet my boyfriend.
Depends on why. Just because most get all their experience early in life doesn't mean someone can't learn. We were all inexperienced at one time. Just think, some might even find it fun to be a teacher. I would be more concerned with someone with a high body count. They are in it for sex and are more likely to "stray" - aka "cheat" in the future because they like the variety and might find it hard to just have one sexual partner.
I dated a woman nearing 40 who was a virgin and had a few relationships but nothing serious.
Worst mistake.
She didn't know herself enough to know how she'd react to a relationship. It was exhausting.
To me, it's a dealbreaker.
I don't have time to waste waiting for a guy fresh to dating to figure himself out. I'm in the market for people who, like myself, already know themselves, their likes and dislikes, their values, and their preferences.I don't really thing it's an issue, nowadays intimacy is being put on a scale, trying to pull pornographic stunts... that will never work... trust me, even people with experience might lack in some things... To me, intimacy is not even valid if there is no connection whatsoever but hey it's just me...
Find you a Woman that values your true nature, not your sexual experiences...If he was a man whore and never dated, absolutely he is off the table.. as for you.. I don't know why did those 2 girls only end up hookups and not gfs?
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Depends on the reasons behind him never having a girlfriend. Usually people who reach that age but have never dated, have some serious baggage or red flags that keeps potential partners away.
My boyfriend, 32, was in your same predicament. Didn't bother me at all that he had never been in a relationship because I had never been in one either and wasn't a virgin. I'm sure you'll find a girl that doesn't care about that.
yeah, there's like certain things your first few relationships teach you that's important. i would worry that your inexperience would cause issues
a person who has only had hookups and no real, long lasting relationship is a deal breaker, yes...
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