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What does it mean if a woman pays the entire bill on a date?

In Türkiye, if we girls don't like a guy on a date, we offer to pay the bill. If we don't offer to pay, it means we like him. Yes, the guy usually pays the bill on the first date, but if we don't like him, we pay the...
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Why is that the good looking guys I wanted either were jerks or always went for stunning girls? Why do I always attract guys I don’t want?

I struggled with weight all my life. I’m 6ft, currently 219lbs. I was fine when I was younger until I got chubbier at 8 years old. Middle school I was chubby and then I got really fat in high school. Never had a boyfriend...
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Why is it that when people think of 'Turkish men,' the first things that come to mind are jealousy, restriction, and constant pressure?

I’ve noticed a huge contrast since being in Europe. While many European men seem to take pride in a woman’s independence and confidence, a lot of Turkish men act like they only feel 'manly' when they are policing what a...
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Guys, can girl dress too sexy for a date?

I mean still classy but also very sexy. Could it give the wrong impression or do you think the sexier the better even if you don't plan to have sex on the first date?
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If a guy asks to split the bill on the first date, is that an instant turn-off or totally fine?

A lot of men say equality = 50/50. A lot of women say effort matters more than money. Which one actually kills attraction?
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Girls, What is an adventurous first or second date?

If you are the adventurous outdoor type would you go rock climbing/ziplining on a first second date?
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He gets told no vibe or chemistry Show More
He’s physically unattractive
He’s socially awkward
He’s doing something off putting
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How would you feel if your date wants to bring you to sex club on first date?

Guy I met on online dating app wants to take me to sexclub in Portland Oregon on first date. That is not my dream date
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If he kissed me 4 times even when I said no is it a red flag?

on the first date he tried to kiss me 4 times even when i said no but he kept pushing is it red flag?
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How do people even meet, talk and date?

No one approaches me like that. I don't think am bad looking, I am friendly appropriate. I had few men I found attractive but am too scared to say that out loud, so if no one comes to me first then that's it...
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Rate this look for a first date?

I’m wearing this out tonight and wanted to get the opposite gender's perspective. Does it fit me well? Should I swap anything out? 1-10 ratings are fine, but actual advice is better!
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Is there anything a guy who’s socially awkward, can’t flirt & always gets told no chemistry can do about it?

If he’s been on hundreds of first dates from dating apps and he always gets told no chemistry.
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If he’s been on hundreds of first dates from dating apps and he always gets told no chemistry. Show More
Yes there are
No it’s likely there’ll be a natural limit for him and he’ll have to accept he could be single forever
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Should I stop talking to a guy if he has a toxic ex?

I’ve been talking to this guy for like a month and we went out on a date. And I had a really good time but then at night his ex girlfriend made an account and wrote my name in the bio saying that this boy I went on a date...
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Girls, If you received this message from a guy after a first date would you see him again?

“Just got home, I think the venue was a bit off. Sorry if it felt awkward. If you’d like to try again somewhere warmer and quieter, let me know. Otherwise have a good weekend. :)”
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“Just got home, I think the venue was a bit off. Sorry if it felt awkward. If you’d like to try again somewhere warmer and quieter, let me know. Otherwise have a good weekend. :)” Show More
Yes I would see him again if I liked him
No I wouldn’t see him again even if I liked him
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Should I text him?

I met him twice and we texted a little. He was very intense from the start, flirting, making plans, and talking about control. After our last date, he expected me to text first, but I didn’t. Then, after 10 days of...
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Do men who grew up in chaos, feel a slight shock factor when dating a stable woman?

This man and I hit it off. Our first date was great! We are alike in some ways but also different. We met through my best friend. He grew up in an unstable household, he said he wasn't taught much about values growing up,...
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How to ask out a girl I just met in a weekly class?

For some context, I (27M) rarely make a point to get out there to social events outside of friend groups and it's been years since I've dated so I always need a refresh on how to approach them. I recently joined a once a...
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