Search Results: hurt in relationships

From your perspective why do you think so many people have commitment issues when it comes to dating?

What's your perspective and experience with this? I'll admit I have commitment issues. For me, I think I have a fear of getting hurt or losing my sense of self in a serious relationship. I know I'm not the only one scared...

megzs16

Xper 5 Age: 37

Other

My partner triggers me over via text messages?

we are in a long distance relationship and we were sexting, i told him i needed a break because i had a long day and was exhausted and needed to get some dinner, i said to him we will continue to conversation tommorow and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Before we get to the “yes” or the “no,” we need to take care of ourself.

Some people look for ultimatums (usually two) for their “stance” on love. Or relationships… as if it has to be DEFINITE. And Unmoving. Like a law. But us, as living, human beings, are constantly growing in more ways than...

Rosexøxø

Influencer Age: 23

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I feel like I want to hurt the guy that played me and his wife?

He took advantage of me and my vulnerability and I trusted him bc he made me feel safe knowing that I was struggling with mental health and he made it seem like he wanted to love me.. he ended up ghosting me bc sex wasn’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Still wanting something who doesn’t want me and who lied to me?

It’s been a minute since we last talked and I’m still not over him… he made me feel safe then he switched up… he made it seem like he wanted something more when I wasn’t necessarily ready. He ended up wanting sex and I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you handle bf’s excessive jealousy?

I love my boyfriend and I don’t want to break up with him, but his jealousy is becoming really difficult to deal with. He gets upset when I talk to my male coworkers or if I go out with my girlfriends and their boyfriends...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean when he says he feels bad when I bring up if we’re just friends or friends with benefits or simply clarity?

He said he likes me Contact me every single day for almost a year. He’s initiated contact every day for a year. We’ve hung out a couple times. He said before about a girl he that he just wasn’t romantically attracted to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Season finale… I hate what you did to us, but I truly loved you

https://www.youtube.com/embed/4fqwVBuunxY There’s a difference between loving someone and trusting them with the most fragile parts of you. I did both. I gave you all the pieces of who I was, carefully collected over...

LiaRaven

Influencer Age: 29

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Am I a bad person?

My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. We live on two different continents and haven’t seen each other in six months. I’ve been trying to find a compromise so we can finally see each other again. But...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How would it make you feel if a guy kept asking personal questions about your mother?

I went on one date with this guy last weekend. Yes he was nice at first but he started asking me a lot of personal questions about my relationship with my ex ( which I kinda understand I guess) and about my mother. Mom...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I tell my current boyfriend that I’ve cheated on a past boyfriend?

Two years ago I had emotionally cheated on my boyfriend at the time, P, with my girl best friend of 3-4 months, M. I confided in M in ways I wasn’t with P, looked at her with love, and imagined a future. I kept telling...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do I accept that men fantasise about other women while in a relationship?

Before you answer, hear me out. I'm often called ''jealous'' or ''insecure'', I'm here because I'm tired of being misunderstood. My problem is this: I don't care how loyal and respectful a man is. If a man has to control...

BiancaSN

Xper 4 Age: 27

Break Up & Divorce

How do you move on after planning your future with someone who changed?

I'm really heartbroken to have to write about something like this but my boyfriend is withdrawn from our relationship 2 months after I gave birth to our first child. He had been going out a lot or hanging with friends or...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If someone didn’t care, why would they go out of their way to cut ties — like unfollowing people connected to me — only after I reached out? ?

I sent him a message thanking him for his kindness in the past and he left my message on read then.. he responded after I called him a jackass… “Can I ask something? I sent a kind message to a guy I once had a connection...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I sent him a message thanking him for his kindness in the past and he left my message on read then.. he responded after I called him a jackass… “Can I ask something? I sent a kind

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I don't know how to feel? Am I overthinking?

I don't know how to feel? Me F23 and my boyfriend M24, have been together for 2 months, been talking for 4 months before we got together we were a situationship. Anyways, Tuesday night he told me that sometimes he'd...

BabyOranges

Xper 3 Age: 24

How to know if a guy likes me or if I am just wasting my time?

I have a crush on my guy friend. We are religious so we have strict dating standards and expectations (no lusting, spending time alone unless fully dating, influences). We have known each other going on 5 years but never...

Anonymous

(30-35)