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Why do women take a man’s last name in marriage?

Yesterday I asked how men and women felt about changing the surname to the woman’s rather than the man’s. The men gave me an unexpected level of vitriol at the idea of giving up their name or even compromising it with a...
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Does he TRULY only see me as a friend? OR just scared of commitment?

I started seeing a guy last year (me 31F and him 38M) and we dated for 7 months. We had talks about how we felt about our relationship and if there was anything that was bothering us. Our last “check in” was good, he...
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Do men lie about wanting serious commitments, just to get sex?

I got hit on by a group of about four guys I used to know, they’re friends of some friends of mine, after telling one of them years ago that I used to be a party girl and a bit wild. One said he didn’t want anything...
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*Advice Needed* Updated from my question about whether to get attached to someone who only wants to keep things casual, what do to do now?

So similar to my last question about getting attached to someone who only wants things casual. We've done quite a bit together (hangout, work, college, sex, etc.) For an update, we did talk about it and he said he does...
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Seeking Advice on a Confusing Situation with Someone I Care About?

I’m looking for some clarity and advice regarding someone I deeply care about. Here’s the situation: I was very close to this girl, and over time, we had several long phone calls where she indirectly expressed her...
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I’ve never felt this way before?

So recently I lost someone the love of my life or so I thought and man I loved this girl it’s the happiest I’d been in a long time and she said all the right things everything to make me love her but I never got the same...
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Should I break up with my girlfriend if she wants more commitment and I don't want it?

Basically she wants to move in together and I don't see the point in it. Everything is good the way it is. I value my autonomy and I don't want to take on any risks.
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Guys, What is your take?

Hi everyone, It was my boyfriend's birthday recently, and I surprised him in a big way. I started the month with a gift and then planned a weekend getaway with our friends for his actual birthday. After we returned, I...
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10 years together and still not married: What's holding you back or defining your commitment?

I've always found it fascinating how some couples can be together for a decade without taking the plunge into marriage. Is there something holding them back fear of commitment, financial struggles, or just not believing...
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My boyfriend doesn't want to move in together. Is this normal?

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2.5 years and have brought up the topic of moving in together, without any pressure, a few different times. He's always been dismissive and hasn't really given my any clear reasons...
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Do modern women really sleep around to feel liberated?

I live by that saying "Action speaks louder than words" and these same exact women always contradict themselves via their actions. these women who claim they have sex to feel liberated are usually the same exact women who...
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Can you see the plus sides of having stayed single?

I for one sure can. I'm glad to be 30, stress free from no offspring commitments or wife/girlfriend/partner commitments. My days are as I please. Must suck to be someone in their 20s or 30s "actually starting a...
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I for one sure can. I'm glad to be 30, stress free from no offspring commitments or wife/girlfriend/partner commitments. My days are as I please. Must suck to be someone in their 20s or 30s "actually starting a family/maintaining a relationship, etc" and I do say etc. ha!
Yes I see the benefits now
I was naive in my earlier 20s and used to think sex was all I wanted and needed
I look at loser dad's in their 20s and 30s and smile to myself after I've passed them by or later at home to myself :) 😁
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Do women talk to their girls about cheating on their partner as much as the guys talk about it with their bros?

I find myself curious. I don't know the actual statistics and I feel it would be hard to find stats about gossip but I will share my experience. Personally I find that lots of guys who actually can cheat easily do openly...
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I find myself curious. I don't know the actual statistics and I feel it would be hard to find stats about gossip but I will share my experience. Personally I find that lots of guys who Show More
I think girls talk about it even more
I think it is about equal
I think guys talk about it more
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What should I do?

A guy that I have seen a couple of times and who wants to continue the relationship wants to see me this weekend but had to cancel our plans for the past 3 weekends due to family commitments, so he says I notice he has...
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Is marriage important to you? Why or why not?

I've often heard marriage being considered the ultimate commitment, or if you don't have a ring in so many years to leave a guy. I've known women who have called it quits with men they still want to be with because they...
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Is he taking it slow or avoiding commitment?

Hi all, we are both in our mid 30s (him 37, me 35) and both have competitive professional jobs. We have been dating (exclusive relationship) for nearly a year. I have been open that I am only looking for a serious...
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What qualities/traits do you find the most attractive in men/women?

Qualities can be both physical or emotional/etc, just please refrain from being overly lewd ⚠️ I think one of the most important qualities I admire and find attractive in a man is if he’s capable of following through...
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Wasn't commitment beneficial for us even during the Stone Age?

Present-day if a woman had a couple live-in bfs, got pregnant by one of them and a break-up happens, she's a single mother with less chance of finding another suitable man for commitment. Ok so she'll survive but her...
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Do think the following is justice? Punishment to a leader who didn't give orders to do war crimes?

You all know i refer to the unjust warrant to arrest a jew prime Minister. Even if we assume an Israeli soldier violated *som law, he wasn't "following orders" to do that because prime minister etc. Never ordered to...
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