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I am lying to all my female friends about my dating life, is this wrong?

Due to PTSD, I didn’t lose my virginity until 28. Basically what caused this is PTSD (rather not describe its origin, that’s so dark) that was so crippling I lost my sex drive for years. It basically felt like I was...
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What made you realize he was the one?

For me, it was simple. He didn’t just say he cared, he stood up for me. He chose clarity over comfort, action over excuses. Love, to me.. Isn’t intensity or chemistry alone, It’s courage. It’s choosing...
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Would you stop talking to your mom if she was friends with your enemies?

Husband is in law enforcement and his mom is friends with people who are completely toxic. She going off popularity for sure. These people don’t like my husband in real life. He knows this for sure! They have absolutely 0...
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Guys, is my friends with benefits catching feelings for me?

I have developed feelings for my friends with benefits. It started out as just sex, but now it’s become something more on my end, something that I really want to explore. I only started the friends with benefits...
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Can you tell if a waitress is genuinely flirting verses being professional verses fake flirting?

9/10 she’s doing her job unless you’re extremely attractive then you may get hit on more often. If she’s professional, prompt, and friendly. She’s probably doing her job. If she’s rude she will get in trouble even if...
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On the Run: Timothy Busfield

I don't even know if this is in the mainstream news yet, but there's an arrest warrant out for Timothy Busfield, who is the husband of Melissa Gilbert, who was Laura Ingalls on Little House on the Prairie. He's a big TV...
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I am 35M and only ever paid for sex, what to do now?

Before anyone asks “why aren’t you at work”? I’m sick, if I go like this I’ll be reprimanded. and when I get sick, I think of stuff that haunt me I only ever paid for sex to be honest, and I’m 35M now. My whole entire 20s...
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Do you think its transphobic if someone is not attracted to trans men/women?

I am just asking this question because first off, I am straight and not into women what so ever. Secondly, in high school, I had a trans women write me a note saying he was interested in me and to be fair, I wasn't...
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Girls, do you want men to approach you?

So I've seen some videos on social media of women fearfully lamenting that men don't approach them, that men these days don't approach women enough, and that feminism has scared them off and ruined dating. Now, this...
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So I've seen some videos on social media of women fearfully lamenting that men don't approach them, that men these days don't approach women enough, and that feminism has scared them Show More
I want guys to approach me!
No, men stay away!
I'm in a solid relationship, so this doesn't apply to me
I'm a guy/let me see the poll results
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How do people use filters on videos to make themselves look better than they are?

I have watched a few videos about photoshop, and gimp. I even came across one video that talked about girls using filters to make themselves look better in a video. Honestly doing this kind of stuff has not interested me...
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Why would a guy pursue me and then later tell me he thinks he is gay?

Here’s a tightened, cleaner version at exactly 2,000 characters: We met on a dating app—no, not Tinder—and he messaged me first. We talked for a few days and clicked fast. We’re both artists learning tattooing, traded...
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Here’s a tightened, cleaner version at exactly 2,000 characters: We met on a dating app—no, not Tinder—and he messaged me first. We talked for a few days and clicked fast. We’re both Show More
He made up an excuse after getting sex
He was being honest
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Why do compliments feel disingenuous?

Whenever I do, and it’s rare, get compliments from women it always feels like they don’t mean it. Like as if they’re talking to a little kid sometimes. I just find it really hard to believe that they actually mean it....
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Showing up on the first date with an eczema outbreak?

I matched with this guy on a dating app a few days ago. We hit it off well chat wise so far, so we want to meet up preferably the upcoming weekend for low stakes coffee at a cafe. Only thing is: since about a week i have...
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Would you date someone with different political views?

there's this guy who I really like and he's asked me out a couple of times but he's extremely left wing whilst im definitely not. Im British and he's American. We met due to work and were both constantly travelling...
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How much of a long shot is it to try to keep an option open from long distance?

I got a girl’s number when on vacation and I do intend on moving back to the area. I was very transparent about all of this and she seemed fine with it and told me she was interested in me. So I got her number and told...
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Girls, Guys, Writing on the wall?

10 years long distance. (brief breakup) 16 years total. Self employed in diff state where we both once lived. I moved after break up. He looked me up. Reconnected and he bought us a home in my state. Asked me to leave my...
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Do You Know How Much You Mean To Me?

My question was inspired by @osheeT who wrote the most heartfelt opinion on my question "How Do You Think You Will Be And Feel When You Are 70"? Or something like that. He made me realize (as real tears were streaming...
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How is it like date a guy with kids? how do you get time to meet&date?

I once met a guy on a dating app. He had a kid he had see Sundays. We met in the car , no date he wanted sex & we shared a drink. I don’t let him have sex. We just madeout. But he wouldn’t text much, no plans for dates,...
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What are your new years commitments?

As part of my commitment to my new outlook on life, I've realized that my negativity has been the sole thing holding me back. No big, mean federal agents knocked on my door like I feared they would if my political...
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Has AI already become dangerous?

We've all heard the concerns about AI starting WW3 but has AI already become a danger to human life? At Christmas we had people here get into difficultly during a Christmas swim when ChatGPT gave them the wrong tide...
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We've all heard the concerns about AI starting WW3 but has AI already become a danger to human life? At Christmas we had people here get into difficultly during a Christmas swim Show More
Poppy's got a point
Poppy got a tinfoil hat for Christmas
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