Search Results: helping a friend

I've been helping this friend with money, etc for months. I've put up with their poor attitude, meanness (they can be rude & ignorant towards me), etc. for months. Despite them saying we'll do things together they always put others - even those who don't help them at all - ahead of this, etc.

When one considers I haven't just helped them but tried to be friends, etc. despite the fact they don't even put in half the effort.

I find it ironic in how they have such bad luck. Like almost nothing - even simple things like whims safety training for their job - goes right for them.

So I've been helping this friend for months with money, etc. and they consistently tell me that they appericate it however they rarely do anything to show it.

I mean I've tried for weeks to go for a coffee to barely any response.

And they text me this Monday that they've gone skiing with some new person - a random met at their new job - that weekend.

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I'll admit there's been a few times I've overreacted to their behavior but that was due to them being rude, ignorant, mean, disrespectful, etc. towards me.

I'd say that affects them wanting to hang out - except they've admitted they want to hang out just they never deliver on this