Search Results: rejecting a friend

Is he playing matchmaker, are they both testing my morality, or are they both interested?

My guy friend who I’ll call Brian and his brother who I’ll call Mike kept bringing up the guy I like who I’ll call Fred in conversation, knowing that he rejected me and I was distancing myself, to move on faster. I...

MoonFace2

Xper 6 Age: 37

Why is moving on viewed as "selfish" when you've been rejected?

Just can apply to ANY situation regarding rejection but especially relationships is what I really want to talk more about? It really annoys me that being rejected by an ex that you want to love or a crush or anyone...

Cherrylicious

Yoda Age: 34

Why do people think that they're entitled to a friendship after they reject you?

I've had guys reject me only to become obsessive/borderline stalkers when I discontinue the friendship because we aren't on the same page. I'm still polite and cordial around them, but they complain that I don't act...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Religion & Spirituality

What do you think of the bible saying there is nothing you can do to boost your reputation outside of merit and chance?

I know pastors who tried to boost their reputation by rejecting poor and disabled people as friends and they and up with hideous furrow brows on their face and a very short height that makes them less attractive than...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Entertainment & Arts

Is being a tall girl or woman more difficult in theatre or the industry?

Okay so I love theatre and as a child I always got castes as a chorus, male character, or an adult or I don’t get any at all. I’m 6’0, large built, curvy and plus size. My friend who’s is petite and 5’2 has been in more...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Was this guy I used to talk to right about this?

He told me if I am too judgmental and high expecting, I would always be alone cause nobody would ever measure up to the moral standards I demand in my friends. I reject 98% of the chances I get to socialize cause I want...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

She made me bad?

All my life I have been a good man. I have only focused on one girl. if I was interested in one girl, I would reject the others and miss my chance I have rejected so many girls because I had eye for one. Even in a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Will some of them think I’m trying to be cocky even tho I’m not looking their way?

When I go somewhere like school or work I don’t talk to girls ever since the first time I got rejected by one at a job so she solidified that. It’s work it’s not worth embarrassing yourself and having to be around the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to get rid of emotions for her for good?

There is a girl who rejected me. She liked me at one point, we went out and we kissed few times. Then she rejected and i dont know why. It has been two years and i dont know if i have moved on. We live in a small town and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why doe he hate me now?

When I was around 7 I met my male cousin's friend he was 7 as well even the day I met him he would just constantly stare at me my family used to tease me about how much he was in love with me he was a very sweet boy but I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, Why is she so cold after rejecting me even after giving her space for friendship to resume? Help me decode what I did wrong?

I was on this course with this girl, to whom I was a good friend to. She was passionate sparkling and bit dizzy which was charming Over time I developed feelings for her as I saw her in a new light, but was pretty sure...

Flapjack12

Xper 1 Age: 23

I don’t love my husband anymore, how to force him to stop loving me?

I met someone else, who’s not worth it but to show respect to myself I’m rejecting him. He’s the man i always wanted and pray for but he told me a year ago that he was only looking for a friends with benefits...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My girlfriend broke up with me on the flight to the place I was planning on proposing, she said she would give me a chance and see how the week goes?

I was planning on proposing on a planned vacation with some of her friends, but she told me that she doesn’t think we are ready a week before the trip. Not knowing that I was planning it, I told her and now she has really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Do you agree with the person who said making friends is harder as an adult?

Someone said that to me one time. That making friends is harder as an adult. I did not tell them the reason they have issues making friends as an adult is that they are close minded, controlling, biased, competitive,...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Why do people get mad when you don’t want to be friends after they reject you? Are people that desperate for friends?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do men still cold approach when it will always be uncomfortable and 99% of women are unreceptive to it?

I met my fiancé in college my friends met their husbands through a mix of mutual friends, school, hobbies, and work. In social settings joining on conservations or speaking to a woman casually is not a cold approach at...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is it that with some men when you reject them, they’ll ask to be friends and spend the entire friendship trying to convince you to date them?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I pick non shallow men?

I’ve been rejected and ghosted frequently because I don’t have friends to get dressed up every Saturday night. I just go gym and work and on a rare occasion get dolled up.

Anonymous

(18-24)