Search Results: not having sex in relationship

Is it logic or insecurity? ?

Would avoiding dating someone who doesn't have me as a type be insecure on my part? If someone has a type, they will most likely focus more on dating those who fit their preference. Even though they say that having a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy I've gone on dates with, also likes me, but hasn't mentioned consideration of being in a relationship?

I've gone on 4 dates with a guy. I like his qualities and personality. We have kissed passionately but I told him that I would not have sex with a guy until I'm in a relationship with him. He respected that, but I feel...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I told my friend with benefits I love him?

I’ve known this guy nearly all my life, we have always been friends but nothing has ever happened. 2020 we both divorced from messy marriages and found comfort in each other. Gradually we got closer and closer, until...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What defines an affair opposed to a series of mistakes?

We are both married, both been friends over half our life; we knew each other before our current significant others. We are both in 15 year plus marriages. The past 6 months, so how, we have ended up having sex all of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I’m having an affair, I think my husband suspects but he’s avoiding confronting it?

I’m in the middle of what would probably be called an affair, it started off as a secret friendship for 7 years but the past year it’s been sexual. I believe my husband has suspected for a while at the beginning, and even...

Anonymous

(36-45)

The Term Alpha Male Is A Lie. You Might As Well Believe In Santa Clause.

Before I begin I would like to clear up one thing. I am not here to tear down men that have confidence or look up to this ferry tail to gain confidence. I want to free you from an egotistical miInclude a caption for your...

McLlovin

Xper 5 Age: 39

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Love at First Sight

I believe in love at first sight. Because I believe that love is something that changes over time. It can grow or fade, but either way, there is always a start to that love. It begins as a connection is made, and sometime...

zeitgeist057

Influencer Age: 38

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Is my friends with benefits developing feelings for me?

Him and I have been off and on again hooking up. I just got out of a relationship so my mind is not thinking about jumping to another relationship. He invited me over to his apartment this past weekend and I spent the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Your partner having opposite sex friends, yes or No?

It's only a preference, so yes or No? Personally for me it's a no and I will most definitely return the favor of course, I just think it's healthier for a relationship where there's no worry from either side on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Those of you in committed relationships, when did you first start having sex with your partner?

The girl I’ve been seeing and I are exclusive, but we haven’t had sex yet. We make out, she’s let me feel her up over her clothes, but it was pretty obvious from her body language that she didn’t want to go further when...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have a very permissive attitude towards cheating in a relationship. Ladies, what are your thoughts on this? Should men be forgiving if she cheats?

Ladies, I tend to have a very lenient attitude towards being cheated on in a relationship. In fact, it's nothing I'd even consider ending a relationship over. In fact, being cheated on has never made me angry or violent....

billmunch

Xper 6 Age: 53

Poly question support?

This is so complicated I don't know where to start. Looking for people in successful poly relationships - we opened our relationship to one other female 8 months ago - the first night there was a miscommunication about...

MissBoogus

Xper 7 Age: 28

Boyfriends body count over 40, should I try to trust him?

So I have been dating and sleeping with this guy who is the same age as me for three months we are official and I have understood that he has called me his girlfriend and he has explained that he is sexually exclusive...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How long should you wait for a guy to contact you after the first date?

I went on a first date with a guy I matched with after a day of knowing him on hinge, we were knowing some background info on each other and asked what I was on hinge for and I said a relationship and he said same since...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How sure do you feel about your relationship?

I definitely feel more sure than before but still not as sure as I have with the men of my past. I always felt pretty sure within month 1, 2, or 3 and certainly long before the sex. But like I don't know how i feel rn....

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

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Wouldn't it be great if some of us were asexuals?

As humans, most of us start having crushes during our school years, dating, seek attention and approval from the opposite gender, get into relationship, suffer heartbreaks, etc. Even guys desperately wanting sex; that's...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is modern dating awful no matter how I get to it, whether it's irl or online?

Women with a learning disability and from both of my experience with dating in RL is also crap to and as well as online dating is also poo to. RL dating is more harder and some of times men will not approch and yep i have...

Usersarepoo

Xper 3 Age: 27

What does it mean when a guy I’ve been talking to says “(my name), we’re still okay? Is he trying to get me hooked or does he genuinely likes me?

Background: We started hooking up in January 2023, but we originally met in 2022 on December 20 something. He lives in Austin and I live in El Paso, TX. We made sure it was just sex, no strings attached. After agreeing,...

Anonymous

(25-29)