Search Results: commitment

Is this possessiveness?

We dated without labels. There was some unspoken commitment from both our ends. He started acting like he owns me, from my clothes to who all I talk to and sexual liberty. It was more like naked cuddles over sex anytime....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it better to stick with casual dating/hookups?

People are so afraid of commitment for various of reasons. Casual dating/hookups are the go-to options because you don’t have to see the same person everyday, or ever again. You can see them once and that’s it. Seems like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We could never be together and now I’d rather die?

He was my first love at the age of 15, I have always felt we were soulmates, we went our separate ways at 19 and found new relationships fast, we both married young and had children. The marriages lasted a while and we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it ok to feel sad to see other women in stagnant relationships?

I was once there (not anymore) and know exactly how it feels. There was a time I was depressed. Last week or so, a female acquaintance asked me for my advice on how her relationship of 1 year can progress and how she can...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I’ve been a girlfriend for 7yrs. Am I wasting time?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 7yrs. I was a bad girlfriend for the first couple of years. I come from a destructive family and I was very damaged. Along the way I made mistakes and cheated. I have done my best to repair...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Why do people spread fake news about the American election on here?

From the outside world (which has it's own problems), it seems like political comment on here is just about slandering the presidential candidates and their running mates. Wouldn't it be better to look at their and their...

stratford

Yoda Age: 37

Education & Career

A (Belated) Graduation Speech and Other Important Lessons

To the class of...well, whatever year you’re reading this, I’ll begin by first saying “Congratulations”. Then “Good luck”. I’d like to share some things about my life and experience since I graduated from college. In...

BCRanger10

Master Age: 38

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What does it mean when he can't commit but also can't let you go?

I have this thing going on with a guy friend for over a year now. We both can't really open up for different reasons and he always said commitment is not easy for him. So everything never really came to any outcome, even...

Milady281

Xper 1 Age: 21

How Do I Look?

Can I get a commitment from an athlete?

I look similar to this girl if I were to judge my beauty levels.

Anonymous

(30-35)

I understand not being his first priority but I dont understand seemingly being his last. Am I in the wrong or is my boyfriend?

My boyfriend plays football. He's got a very busy schedule, he has practice like twice a day except Sunday and only one practice on Saturday. He says he's always really tired so thats why we can't hang out. Today practice...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Would you come to a commitment ceremony if invited?

If a friend or relative invited you to a commitment ceremony (not an actual wedding) would you come or not? The reason I've asked if because my parents were invited to a relative's commitment ceremony recently. It was a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

If a friend or relative invited you to a commitment ceremony (not an actual wedding) would you come or not? The reason I've asked if because my parents were invited to a relative's

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Do I ask for a follow up message?

I was talking with my coworker and I assumed we like each other. We agreed to go on dates and we both enjoyed the dates we went. A few days later after the last date I asked her out on another date she said yes I'll let...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did guy suddenly change his attitude?

Guy I'm dating suddenly changed his attitude. Before, he is very active on social media posting memes and always complaining about his lovelife or lack thereof. We've started talking 4 months ago and I noticed for the...

Ofoceansbeaches1

Xper 5 Age: 35

Fellas, what % of women today would you say are dateable with intent of forming a SUCCESSFUL permanent commitment?

I know some of you have no interest in a commitment. You can abstain from this question.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Should I give marriage ultimatum to my partner after 5 years?

We’ve been together for nearly five years, We’ve lived together on and off during the pandemic, as I travel often to help with family. We do long-distance well and share compatible life goals. He’s a wonderful partner,...

abby1980

Xper 5 Age: 45

Are some really good people just meant to be single?

Hi Guys and Gals, There are two running theories I've been reading up on that imply some good people are simply meant to be single. Please bear with me and lmk your thoughts on this: T1 (Living the Good Life): A person...

DishLady

Influencer Age: 52

If there’s no commitment on hooking up, why are people telling me that he’s not into me if he can do what he wants?

I didn’t make it obvious that you like him, so he probably thought that I just wanted to hook up since he found someone.

Burgundydog21

Xper 3 Age: 23

Did he think that I just wanted to hook up because I agreed to hooking up and that that’s why he found someone else?

Since hooking up isn’t a commitment, he can do what he wants since I didn’t show that I liked him

Burgundydog21

Xper 3 Age: 23