Search Results: late with the first date

How should I interact with my crush?

There is a girl I (M20) like in my class (F22) for last couple of weeks we have been talking in class a little and texting some mostly 5-6 hours a week but I really made her a big deal in my mind. I want to text her...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do women that reject a guy pay attention to the guy more after the rejection?

Long story short, I asked a girl out on a date, she said she’ll let me know because she was working a lot but she was down….. but she never did (it’s been almost two weeks). We had a good conversation before, and we had a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would a guy turn down hanging with the guys or social events to meet strangers at least at the beginning of dating a new girl?

I know it's not good to expect guys to always turn down other social opportunities after you have been together for a long time. But how do guys generally act in the beginning of dating? Aren't they usually so excited...

Bethany22

Influencer Age: 31

Should I ask the girl I’ve been 3 dates with why she’s been acting more distant recently?

I know this girl from work, and started going on dates a month and a half ago. After the first date I confessed my feelings for her and she said she felt the same. Before the third date she would show interest through...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My ex-boyfriend's unusual living situation (sharing a house with the mother of his child) makes me feel like a homewrecker. What do you think?

My ex was a guy who, when I met him, still lived with the mother of his child (not married). They had been broken up for 3 years and lived together to take care of their son, their house was huge so each one had their...

Anonymous

(25-29)

So I broke up with a guy whom I have not started to date? How to get over this crazy bs? Please help and please don't be rude?

So there's this guy whom I have been talking to since like 2 months, we had a good chemistry, but he had a few red flags like for example we both belong to different religions (due to which he don't seem to think of a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Left for a friend when it became a ldr? Is there something wrong with me? To want them back?

I will try to summarize, met online and the first date was on Valentine's and she showed up over 4 hours late and drunk (feel free to call me a dumbass for continuing) we started dating and it came to light she has bpd...

iamathrowaway

Xper 1 Age: 34

We date but we don’t text, is that okay?

He used to text a lot initially before the first date and I responded days later. He then only started texting me to set a date. We have had a few dates and we have a great chemistry, but he doesn’t text daily. He texts...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, will you actually date a guy who is very different than your circle?

Recently a girl asked me out on a date. We met at a public event where my professor was invited to speak and I delivered a small talk. I am a grad student. We exchanged Instagram accounts. She was indeed really pretty and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dates and related drama continue?

I realized he is working from he at night and just watches the data processing of an insurance company. His house smells of marijuana and it was hard to breathe. He burped in front of me, and I told him it was a deal...

Mehrsia

Xper 2 Age: 48

First several dates?

I matched with a guy in bis 40, and he wanted to visit the same day, which I refrained as I was not ready. We chatted for a month, and in between, he wanted to visit, but I was not still ready to meet anyone. Our chat...

Mehrsia

Xper 2 Age: 48

Girls, Should I stand him up?

I went on a first date with a guy, and it went great. He asked to see me again, and we regularly texted afterwards. He seemed genuine and like he wanted to get to know me. One day, out of the blue, he suggested I come...

Delle123

Xper 3 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

The guy I went on a second date with hasn’t contacted me in 3 days. Is he not interested?

I went on a couple dates with a guy and they both went really well. During our first date conversation he got really deep and personal. He talked to me about how he views life, his mother passing away and his experience...

Delle123

Xper 3 Age: 28

Should I tell him he's the farther of our child?

My son is starting to grow up now and ask questions about who his dad is more seriously and as he grows up he's starting to look more and more like his dad which is raising a lot of suspicions and as he gets older he's...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can you trigger a girl into physical and verbal abuse?

So when something would happen her go to response would be that I triggered her often the things that triggered her were directly connected to my autism which she could accuse me of just making excuses. When the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are prople who ghost most likely self centered, selfish, narcissists etc?

Any or all of these traits. For example, I asked this girl out on a date and we agreed to a place, then she messages saying just let me know a day and time. I messaged back a couple hours later. She never even even looked...

red324

Guru Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

How to handle this guy after things got weird?

I started seeing a guy I used to date years ago a few weeks back. We've hung out many times, usually from 7pm-7am, have had lots of sex, and also had some connected intimate moments too. He's told me he likes me, thinks...

helpha

Yoda Age: 31

An introvert guy is sending me mixed signals?

He actually doesn't look me in the eye when talking but glances from time to time and acts normal in person but when we send messages, we are really sweet. I mean he tells me where he went sometimes and also when i...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32