Recently a girl asked me out on a date. We met at a public event where my professor was invited to speak and I delivered a small talk. I am a grad student.
We exchanged Instagram accounts. She was indeed really pretty and told me that she liked my presentation. Later, I looked her up, she probably is a fashion model. Her lifestyle seemed pretty glamorous, with lots of parties, and pictures with very attractive guys.
Compared to that I am a kinda introverted bookish guy who spends time reading and researching. I don't have much money or much experience with women. I am not sure why exactly she asked me out. My ideas for dates are parks, museums, long walks, or hiking kinda stuff. I can't take her to expensive restaurants but I do cook very well I am not sure whether home cooking is a good first date idea.
What Girls Said
Yep absolutely I would. Now how far "out" of my circle or my personalty (which is what I think you are getting at) probably not that far. You use the example of being an introvert. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that at all. That just isn't going to be a good match for me personally. Could it be for her? Absolutely it could be. Sometimes the old saying about opposites attracting is very true and it just works. You just have to remember that she isn't going to change her lifestyle drastically. She may not expect you to partake in it if you aren't that type of person but she isn't going to do a 180 and give up what she knows and likes.
It depends what’s different about him. A person’s “circle” usually exists because those are the people the person finds appealing. If the newcomer has no way of interacting with them then it’s possibly not a great idea to think long term with that girl. Usually the girl picks someone who fits into at least one of her circles (social, professional, etc… whichever one that’s more of a priority to her).