I went on a first date with a guy, and it went great. He asked to see me again, and we regularly texted afterwards. He seemed genuine and like he wanted to get to know me. One day, out of the blue, he suggested I come over to his place at 11 pm. I declined. On the day of our second date he asked me to plan it, and last minute, he pushed it back by an hour and a half. At the end of the date I kissed him goodbye and lightheartedly told him not to text me at 11 pm asking me to go over to his place. He said he wouldn’t, and he asked to see me again. Three days went by, and I heard nothing from him. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and reached out. He replied six hours later, in the evening, completely unlike how he had been texting me regularly just a few days earlier. We settled on a day and had a casual lighthearted conversation. We exchanged a couple of texts, and then he stopped answering again. Clearly, he was just looking to get laid, and when I made it clear that I was not interested, he lost interest. I’m really tempted to just stand him up. Him ghosting me for days, only to then ghost me again, plus asking me to plan a second date, only for him to push it back an hour and a half and not make it up by planning something or anything, was honestly so disrespectful. What are your thoughts?
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Girls, Should I stand him up?
