Any or all of these traits. For example, I asked this girl out on a date and we agreed to a place, then she messages saying just let me know a day and time. I messaged back a couple hours later. She never even even looked at the message I sent. š I checked back two weeks later and she still never checked the message. Why not just say no in the first place.
Somewhat off-topic but I was reminded of this...
One chick who likely had some SERIOUS issues stood me up when I took buses to get to a very busy spot just to purchase a laptop bag. I had my suspicions when she didnāt answer my updates, which I couldnāt send on the go because I despise smartphones. Later on, after I sent a heated message upon returning home, she said she got suspicious and her cop boyfriend (yeah, BS) told her not to go. As someone I used to know once said, I made a long trip for f*** all.
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I used to talk to guy from this site. He does everything I want I never asked him anything money its just what he does for me like simple things a guy does to a woman like when I ask him to do something like write my name on a paper he would write it and take a picture and send it to me. Like he does everything literally for me. We used to talk to here sometimes he wrote stories for me I did the same for him too. He said he likes me and get jealous when I tell him I hangout with guys. But suddenly he just left and hasn't logged in on his account for like 8 mos now. No idea what happened to him but the last time he ghosted me he said he got a girlfriend so I wonder if he got a girlfriend now too or found someone else. He lives in other part of the world and I live on other side. I still think of him even though he ghosted me. I wonder if he ghosted me because he found someone in his own country.
They are simply people who are not interested in you. They are not necessarily narcissistic or self centered or selfish. None of us should feel entitled to a response. Sometimes we don't receive one and that is alright.
I don't think they are necessarily narcissistic. It's more like cowardly. Her feelings changed (she likely has someone else in mind), but she didn't dare to call it off. It's frustrating.
I actually had to ghost someone last week form an online dating site after making plans (but not confirming the time). I think mine was justified in my mind because every time we had a conversation, it just felt so one-sided. She wouldn't ask anything or try to get to know me. I was enthusiastic in my responses and tried to get to know her. There Despite all of this, she said she wanted to meet up. I just felt immediately turned off.
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Me, myself, I ghosted a man that I have been dated for months. A few months later I saw a girl that I never knew before post a picture of him, without him repost that picture and we were on a long distance. He didnāt say anything about it. That moment I knew that I need to walk away without saying a word. Because the more I got attached to him, the more I hurt my feelings and itās not good for my mental and emotional state. I need and should prioritize myself more. In this case, I can say I am selfish.
Maybe she has her phone set to not give notice when a message is read?
She might have thought it easier to not let you down in person, as rude as ghosting is. I'd rather people just lie they are in a relationship than do this to people.The people I know who do it are just socially awkward and find it much easier to block than to say 'hey, i don't want to meet with you anymore'. So yeah, I relate it to cowardice
There's a lot wrong wrong with someone who ghosts. Let's just call the person who does it "damaged". And not in a "victim" way. A mentally healthy person does not act in this manner.
Definitely selfish and obviously not ready to be dating anyone. I have never ghosted someone its rude weak and sad. It would be great if people actually communicated why instead of ghosting
Most likely but she could have a legit excuse why she ghosted you
Ghosting is sorry ass, I don't know about narcissistic.
Sometimes they are just immature. Hopefully they grow and learn.
No, just huge cowards.
-signed āstill scorned by a ghosterā 🤣That would make virtually every girl Iāve ever matched with on dating apps narcissists since practically all of them have ghosted me at some point.
Were the worldās cynics. Why waste time on goodbyes?
People who ghost other people are all the bad stuff you said and more.
More burned by bad experiences and/or anxiety if possibly dealing with those said bad situations.
It means she doesn't like you. Accept the rejection and move on. She owes you nothing
Yeah world's full of it nowadays, you see it just driving to work and back everyday
yes I am self centred and I ghosted a lot of people
No, not necessarily.
Nah they're just assholes.
Any girl who ignores me get the block list
Probably
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