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To make it clear, I don't take revenge, because I think it kinda lowers my spirit and will be bad for me emotionally, so I just try to recover fast and let it go.
Seems like I can't completely let it go, because my husband has said to me things, that really hurt me and he said those things on purpose. I kinda forgave him.
Now some time later he has been experiencing major difficulties in life, he has some serious problems and is feeling down. I am supporting him and doing everything I can and should.
But I also remember times he let me down and feel satisfaction whenever I realize that now he might be feeling just as bad or even worse.
Now that I've put all this out I think I sound really shitty, but anyway, I'm open to any opinion da any advise if you one.

When I’m on YouTube especially, I run into videos talking about how people should not be single because they will be lonely, depressed and that they will regret being life long singles and that the purpose of humanity is to marry and have kids.

They say women who are single are being lied to by feminism which is toxic because it tells women to focus on working hard and not on settling down and having a family.

Personally I feel like we all have a choice and also we all have different fates some of us were born to be single for the long haul, others were born to marry or having kids etc. Also, science has literally debunked the myth that single people are depressed and unhappy by proving that it is very possible to be happy and healthy as a single person.

Anyone can be happy it has nothing to do with your relationship status or if whether you have kids or not. Also if you listen to other people instead of doing what you want you’ll definitely be unhappy.

You will be happy though if you go after what you want in life and accept your fate with open arms and see the bright side of it be it single-hood, marriage or having kids. Because everything has a bright side in life, even though there are cons in every situation there are also pros in every situation.

My friends who married young were busy with their religion, their careers, their jobs, their families, the guy was just a part of their life and not the whole part.

My friends who made the guy the primary purpose for them living their lives either married later or did not marry at all.