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Search Results: red flags
What are some dating red flags you've heard that turned out to be false or misleading?
There must be some, right? Show them. Please? 👁️
Anonymous
(36-45) My boyfriend told his female friend about our personal problem? Is this a red flag?
So my new boyfriend and I have been together for a few days now. So far I see a lot of green flags beside this lack of communication with a situation we faced. I’ll just say we jumped kind of head on with sex because we...
Anonymous
(25-29) I told a guy I liked something and he made it about himself. Was it wrong of me to ghost/block him?
hiya back a few years ago i met this guy through a xbox game, we had a few rounds and after the game he sent me a message request, saying stuff like “your cute, but your not good at the game”. we ended up joking around,...
Anonymous
(25-29) What are some dating red flags you wish you hadn’t ignored?
Where do i even begin? I downplayed, I turned a blind eye, and I pushed past. I don’t recommend it My relationship history is one person long lol but I’m traumatized for life
DreamCrescent
Xper 7 Age: 39 What’s a red flag in a past relationship that your gut picked up—and you’re now grateful you trusted that instinct and walked away?
In my 20s i met someone online who had been deported from the US for overstaying a visa. We started a long distance situationship with the end goal, if we liked each other enough, i would sponsor him for a fiancé visa. We...
DreamCrescent
Xper 7 Age: 39 
Is it wrong to ghost a guy you met on online dating who won’t meet you in person? I don’t think so?
I met a guy online. Talking with him a lot for a little over a month but seems to be flaky and disappears when I mention meeting in person. That is a red flag for me. Guys who won’t meet in person usually are hiding...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Should you let your partner go through your phone or is that a privacy violation?
I’ve been cheated on before, so honestly, I don’t mind if my boyfriend checks my phone every now and then. If it helps him feel secure, I’m okay with it as long as it’s not constant. I don’t really have anything to...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why Are People Brutal With Job Advice But Opposite With Dating Advice?
hear me out lol. as an individual, you can tell another person you actually work in the burning pits of hell and the most you'll get is "yeah haha" or "meh" or "that's all how jobs are". but if you do the same about your...
fonduegirl
Guru Age: 25 Getting Tons of Attention on app – Real Interest or Red Flags?
Hi everyone! I'm a local Thailand woman and had an experience that honestly left me a little stunned, and I wanted to get some perspectives from people who might know more. I’m a pretty average-looking straight woman —...
judysan
Xper 1 Age: 31 Why do people think they can tell neurodivergent who to date or can or can’t do?
Just because we have disabilities doesn’t mean we can’t date whoever we want too and we can chose what we want to do. Yeah we need more guidance but come on! Don’t tell us what to do. I got told it’s better if I date...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it a red flag?
Is it a red flag when a guy is constantly texting you and jokingly calls you his wife. I've been going along with it because I mostly thought he was joking, but it kinda freaks me out when he says shit like he wouldn't be...
Ally_17
Xper 5 Age: 26 He tried to kiss and more second time hanging out?
First date went good then he invited me over his house I said no how ever we hung out again after and we were at his place he tried to kiss me the. Have sex I said no is this a red flag? He told me that he doesn’t just...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you actually romantically fallen for someone's lies as a grown adult?
I am trying to collect data on what kinds of people this happens to. I'd really appreciate you sharing any short or long details about your demographic/ personality/how you were brought up/dating experiences. I don't know...
Jammaa
Explorer Age: 36 Girls, is it a red flag if a guy isn't close to his siblings?
I don't dislike or resent them but I don't go out of my way to call or visit either. Is that a red flag?
Anonymous
(25-29) Did you ever hear somebody you find attractive say something that was an immediate red flag to you?
There's this girl at the restaurant I work at. I think she's in her mid 20's. She was talking to the host dude earlier today about her career options with the college degree she has. She said something like "one of my...
Staximus
Master Age: 49 Anonymous
(25-29) Do you typically end things first in a relationship, or does your partner usually end it first?
In the relationships you have been in, are you usually the one to break things off when red flags appear, or do you typically try to make it work and your partner has broken it off first? Maybe it's an even split? So...
u Are Women Better At Identifying Red Flags In Partners Than Men?
hear me out ok? I have heard several times men being confused when mistreated by their girlfriends. They're like, isn't that normal? I thought it was normal so I'm not complaining. My female friends on the other hand have...
fonduegirl
Guru Age: 25 Does Social Media Bring The Worst Of Us?
People seem to say the worst things possible to get attention. Generally, the dumbest and the shallow rule the algorithm. You can't have more than five hundred followers on instagram without making suggestive content....
fonduegirl
Guru Age: 25 