Search Results: still not over my ex

Is my boyfriend over his ex?

My boyfriend (32yrs) and I (26yrs) met February2024 and started dating March 2024 and it was all lovely until I found out that he travelled back home and was with a girl last December (2023) and I left that be cause he...

ask_again

Xper 2 Age: 28

Why would a guy stay in a relationship with someone he doesn’t want to be with?

I dated this guy for 2 years we lived together we talked about having a family and spending the rest of our lives together he would always mention proposing to me. I thought I found my soul mate and he’s the only guy I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Why do people go crazy over age gaps?

Why are people in the USA so obsessed with age gap relationships and speak so negative about it? Billie Eilish dated a few older men, and everyone freaked out about it acted like she's unable to make her own choices....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does my ex still care for me or just lonely?

We broke up 10 days ago. We both disagree who broke up with who. He said I told him to go. I remember him saying he wd get his things and go and I said go on then. First few days was the angry what you doing, who you...

Crimsyjo

Guru Age: 47

Why does he get upset when I talk about past experiences that relate to current ones?

So this is not an easy thing to talk about so I'll try not to go into much detail. I want to start off by saying that I don't know why, but I seem to always be a target for things when I do nothing to cause me to be a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is a guy friend too emotionally attach with me?

Lately, my guy friend has been sending me messages asking me how i am, letting me know what his plans are without me asking and consulting me about things but he noticed I had become nonresponsive. At first, he was...

Ofoceans

Xper 4 Age: 35

Family & Friends

Why is she gossiping about me this much, she’s over 2x my age?

I have an ex friend/coach (equestrian), I ended the friendship after 10 years due to her being overly controlling, condescending etc. (Basic female narcissist) I have since switched from eventing to racehorses and no...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it okay to have a meal with an ex?

My ex reached out with a new number to ask me out for a meal and we confirmed a date together and we're eating at the usual place we used to eat at. The breakup happened over a year ago on good terms, the last time we met...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, if a guy is kind of abusive in a relationship, is it better for her if he leaves or if she does the step of letting him go?

She might have had her reasons why she broke up with him. But when she said (she told this story another guy by the way) that the next day she didn't feel better, I wondered what that guy did that made her break up with...

scooogy

Master Age: 34

What do I do about the way I think about my partners past?

My long distance partner informed me of their past history with ex partners and i can’t stop getting jealous or upset over it or thinking about it; it happened a few months before we dated, but it still bothers me.. i...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

What would your thoughts be about my ex waited for me but didn't reach out?

Thank you for responding. My ex and I got a dog together that I signed over to him to nice a month ago. He agreed that he’d still allow me to see him whenever I wanted. About a week ago my ex almost someone and told me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is my ex boyfriend telling someone he is seeing that I’m obsessed with him even though we do not talk at all?

I am reposting this question because it seemed to be very misunderstood and maybe I didn’t give enough detail. I am absolutely done with my ex boyfriend. We have 0 communication. I started ignoring him completely a...

strawberrybaby3

Xper 6 Age: 36

I said something that made my date feel bad, should I say that I bought new lingerie to wear for him on our next date?

We have such a strong chemistry and similar interests. He seems like a good guy and I want him to still continue to date me. This happened on our second date. I actually saw my ex walking on the street and was surprised....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Was I groomed by my now ex boyfriend?

Going anonymous for obvious reasons. When I was 16( I'm 20 now), my ex messaged me on Instagram and we chatted for a couple days. I got to know that he's 9 years older than me, meaning he was 25, a full fledged adult,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I really like my friend but I am not sure about her?

I have this friend that I like like so much We talk and text all the time She opened up to me a lot and I kind of feel that we had this connection She used to entrust me with a lot of her life She was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, Declining sex life now what?

So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and when we started I was 75lbs bigger than I am now and we would have sex for hours on end and multiple times a week. Over the last 9 months or so it has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I make his walls come down any advice and why some guys think this was?

To start off he’s been hurt by an ex back in high school she never gave him closure after their breakup, she doesn’t trust him. Fast forward to recent like these past months and years he thought he had to play it safe...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you end a relationship with someone if you didn’t like one of their friends?

My ex wants to be official with me again and I told her it’s Not going to happen. Because I don’t see eye to eye with her anymore , I don’t hate her , but I can’t give my heart fully to her again , I still have my reasons...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48