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Search Results: how to get guys to not hit on you
Brunettexoxo
Xper 5 Age: 26 Guys, I’m afraid I just killed his interest. Can I fix this or am I better off just moving on?
I met this guy on Facebook dating about a month ago, we hit it off and I was (still am) really liking him. I’m 40, he’s 42. Yesterday afternoon I texted him something and I meant it to be playful, but I don’t think he...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you think this guy is using me and thats why he's being so kind?
I made friends with this Indian guy at my work, I believe he's around my age or a little older. I talk to most people at and I'm very popular amongst my colleagues so without seeming rude I didn't think my friendship with...
Puppystarfish23
Yoda Age: 28 Why do some women get so angry and get out of control with their emotions when a guy mentions he only wants friend with benefits?
Why do some women get so angry and get out of control with their emotions when a guy mentions he only wants friends with benefits. It's almost like she's ready to get so violence on you and ready to hit you with a frying...
Anonymous
(36-45) I understand not being his first priority but I dont understand seemingly being his last. Am I in the wrong or is my boyfriend?
My boyfriend plays football. He's got a very busy schedule, he has practice like twice a day except Sunday and only one practice on Saturday. He says he's always really tired so thats why we can't hang out. Today practice...
Anonymous
(18-24) Am I wrong for feeling this way?
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a few months now and when he drinks he turns into a jerk and is verbally abusive and has in the past hit/thrown things. He told me he would change and that didn’t last long. Most recently...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I get over her or reach out?
I've been out of the dating scene for a few years now, not for lack of trying though. My trust has hit an all time low as I've been lied to/betrayed by basically everyone in my life. I met this girl a couple years or...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why my mom called me a whore for wanting a first boyfriend / marriage at age 26-27?
I’m depresed as i wasted my entire life with parents everyday, while year after year I watched my friends family all progress & have the guy they like as their girlfriend boyfriend, meet family, attend Family parties & me...
Sugar100
Yoda Age: 29 Why don’t guys my age ever look at me in a way that makes them want to ask me out?
So a few days ago, my brothers fiancé was asking me who I liked getting to know most at the engagement party and why. I responded with a guy that is friends of my brothers because he was friendly to me and him and another...
thatshydork
Xper 7 Age: 23 Is it better to distance yourself from a crush or let it fizzle out naturally?
It's so hard! Like a rollercoaster. When you get attention from your crush you feel on top of the world. And that buzz feeling is so addictive and pleasurable. But when either next day they don't give you attention or...
Crimsyjo
Guru Age: 47 Why did Suge Knight allow for Piru Bloods to be around Deathrow Records and created an unsafe and toxic environment?
Suge Knight was this boss dude from Compton who started the whole Death Row Records label back in the 90s. He was a super imposing guy - huge and athletic as hell. Think he played football somewhere before gettin' in the...
How to get over the fact that they never liked you?
I was seeing someone in January and February, and things ended in March. I had been also seeing this guy 2 years ago during summer but we fought a lot so it had ended as well. He was my first everything and I was...
August42022
Xper 1 Age: 25 Should I be friends with a guy friend who ghosted me or no?
Back story Me and a guy best friend really hit it off when we met, like reaaaaaally hit it off. We started talking like everyday, hanging out with each other quite often in groups and one-on-one and cuddled a lot...
Anonymous
(30-35) Have you ever fooled around at work?
I was early 30s and divorced. Job in a town over from my home town. Got to slowly but deliberately know this woman that worked on the 4th floor. I was in the 3rd. I saw her photo on company website and I was like.. hmm....
RyanR03
Xper 4 Age: 50 Was I wrong for doing this?
I was talking to this one guy I met off a dating app. We seemed to hit it off really well at first. There was definitely a connection, and then he went silent for weeks. Last night, he sent me a message saying how...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do y'all think that is cool to tease a girl that Fet guys are just low key hitting on for jẽrk material?
An example. A girl on IG has 141k followers. I saw this the other day. She is from Hawaii. Samoan. And very very large. Easily 300 plus. And in a bikini (Perfectly fine. I have nothing bad to say about her. ) But the...
RyanR03
Xper 4 Age: 50 Girls, What does it mean if a husand is okay if I flirt with his wife?
I talking to a friend. Kinda a stranger. I Just met him. he message me a picture of him and his wife. ask if we wanted to hang out at a bar. and play pool. (just So y'all know I'm a guy.) He asked what did I think of his...
35yrman
Xper 1 Age: 37 Do most guys never get compliments from girls?
I've heard guys rarely get hit on or even complimented by the opposite sex. Is this true?
red324
Guru Age: 37 Met a really nice guy at an event but never got his details?
I recently met this guy whilst I was at a event, he was on a stag do and I was with a friend. We ended up spending all day with the group and me and this one guy kept splitting off from the group every now and then. Even...
Anonymous
(30-35) My ex ruined my life?
I was with this guy for a couple months. He ended up being very abusive. He choked me. Beat me at one point I even had a black eye, and my face was swollen I had a concussion from that one time he hit me. He kicked me...
Anonymous
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