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So my boyfriend entered to win and he was like well if we win I’m giving your mom money to go on the trip (I planned for us to go to PUERTO RICO for her 50th birthday) and we’ll go off and get married. It was a joke and my mom and I so happen to talk about the mega million and I told her what he said and she got really offended. She’s like oh no one is standing in the way of y’all getting married & your not gonna pay me off.

im like what😒😒no one even took it there it was a joke. So now my mom is angry. I’m like if we didn’t want you apart of it I wouldn’t have even asked you to plan my wedding! She didn’t care about what I was saying or the fact that I was crying cause she ended up telling me to plan my own wedding.

Now once I move out our family home I will no longer speak with her. Now the question is would you be offended by the joke?

p. s. my mom never shows she cares about my feelings but I’ve always been caring of hers and it isn’t fair.

Well, I do admit bold guys are attractive my future boyfriend better be polite or I do dump him.

Am I sure I would never be attracted to a rude uncultured swine? 100% positive.

I had two bad boys liking me before and honestly I wanted nothing more than slamming one with a hammer for his lack of manners and slap the second one for embarrassing me in public with his untimely confessions (times in front of the teacher when I would clench fists to stop my hand from gathering strength)

Jerks are jerks, whoever wants to reform them!

Thanks goodness I would never see their faces again in this life 😊🎉

I love daddy so much for the phrase 'I wouldn't mind entering prison for this brat so my daughter is safe, I didn't raise her to cry for someone I has to discipline today in his parents' stead' that stiffened one from going on with his 'jokes' in middle school ever since (good grief I had period of desperation at this time because of him and his gang of friends, if he dared to go for sexual harrasment I would've been the one in trouble for getting violent)

So yeah, I has that hatred for shameless boys, aside from the two who liked me, many likes to tease me and watch me panic or gets angry unless I scream they don't stop like sticky bugs.

Really girls, I'm not you and peopleeach has their preferences, but why go for a deal breaker?

As much as I love my daddy, I can't find his smoking behavior attractive but dangerous, I'm eager for him to reduce if not miraculously stop it.

Alcohol and cigarettes are red alarms when on a partner.

So I do never why some would go for drug dealers or ones with chunni syndrome.

The charm is great but choose your first love (at least) candidates with your head instead of hormones.

I asked mom about why women would choose drunkards she said it's because they're soft-hearted and usually easy-going.

I'm confused, sure dad never hit or screamed at us (mom, sis, me) when he used to drink before I turned 5, there's plenty violent ones.

So whenever my boyfriend and I go out to eat we have tried to split things, If its more than $20-$30 he will sometimes look at me and ask if I want to pay or ask "what should we do" He has paid for things but its for the small things. He's the one with the full time job and I'm getting there to get a job. I have discussed al of this to him and it has gotten better but i still find i'm paying for expensive things. When it comes to gifts he does spend money on me but when it comes to going out he seems to be really cheap. For example: when we went to the movies I paid for the tickets and he paid for the snacks. He ended up going to the game with a friend when tickets were cheaper. So basically i have noticed a pattern of whenever its more than $20-$30 max he will look at me to pay. I am totally down to split things but it's never made me feel "special" when it comes to him taking the initiative especially him with the job and me without a job. I just don't feel special and it feels like he doesn't want to spend money on me which he has but not to when it comes to going out. Is it normal to feel this way or am i being a "diva"?