Search Results: not looking for a relationship right now

Someone I am dating is ignoring my text messages because I had to reschedule?

I had to reschedule a date yesterday for today because of something with my kids. I apologized and he said it was okay, then I said I am really looking forward to seeing him and he hearted my message. Then I suggested a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can a woman rejected a guy that she found attractive if she was fresh out of a toxic relationship?

I know this may come off as I can’t let go, but I’m just curious. First off, I know how rejection looks and feels but this is the first time it didn’t make sense to me, which I come be totally delusional about it. A girl...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I really hate the fact that I'm a virgin at 30 years old. I'm not really blaming anyone but... here I am, I guess?

I'm a fairly smart dude (I'm about to finish grad school)... generally considered well adjusted... generally good with women. I"m told I'm fairly decent looking and I'm told I have fantastic social skills. A lot of women...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did my boyfriend cheat?

My boyfriend went out Saturday night, I was studying for an exam till 2am. He last snapchatted me at 1am. I checked Facebook and insta before I went to sleep and he wasn’t active on his phone. It looked like there was a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why would a guy add “looking for relationship” on his dating profile the day after our third date?

in other news I’ve seen this guy 3 times. The first two times were extremely casual but the third time was more serious/vulnerable. I told him I like seeing him every 2 weeks with no texting in between (works for me) and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do females lie and gaslight you?

Me & my girlfriend started off as friends with benefits. I knew her prior in high school but she moved away. She said while she was coming over she was drunk but she’d do things not strictly sexual. I asked her out more...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Is it true that once a woman is done with you, she's not coming back?

I deeply regret getting too comfortable in our 5 year-old relationship, taking her for granted, exceeding her timeline and not fixing my bad habit of doing things at the last minute. She left me for those reasons. By the...

LukeSkyler

Xper 3 Age: 32

He joked about having an open relationship?

Okay... I'm having a situationship with my coworker. He has narcissistic traits... and is sort of manipulating me. I know that you are going to ask me "what are you doing with him?" I don't know either. Anyway... the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Right person wrong time?

I met a guy last year on a dating app who seemed just wonderful. He had just immigrated to my country from abroad to start a new life. When we first met, he was unemployed after just moving here but a few weeks later he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why society is so judgmental when it comes to a person who is not married at a certain age?

or they are still childless? If a person chose or want to be single and have no kids for instance at a certain maritaland to have kids age, people criticize and believe they are either gay, lesbian, they are odd people or...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why would a guy who’s had a history of not taking relationships seriously want to be serious with you?

I don't know maybe I’m a skeptic and realistic enough to know that people don’t really change over night and there’s nothing really special about me that would make a guy be like “oh I think I’m gonna change for this...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he a big red flag or should I continue seeing him?

I met a guy on Tinder. We were chatting for 9 days. I was interested. But there was also somethings I didn’t know if were normal while we were chatting; - He talked about a wedding he is going to next month and he said if...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I be patient or move on?

We have been together 1 year and 1/2 and We broke up due to peddy arguments, he says he still Love me very much & wants to stay in contact and that we can even go on a date from time to time. He say he is willing to work...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can I get him to fall for me again?

I started a relationship with a guy that started as casual. I vocalized that is what I wanted. We would hook up and go out together, but didn’t label it as dating. We both were comfortable together and shared things with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When you and your SO have a disagreement or conflict, what's more important: deciding who is at fault or getting the problem resolved?

Not many couples actually put on boxing gloves and spar or "duke it out," but most couples recognize the feeling in this picture. Sometimes, your partner says or does something that is SO stupid, SO crazy, SO wrong that...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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Family & Friends

How do you tell your mother you are planning to go away to do a Gap Year in Film School?

I'm planning to do New York Film Academy in a few months and I may do the One-Year Conservatory Program this summer. I think at 24, it's a chance for me to get away and rediscover who I am; while also maintaining a better...

BubbaSparkx

Xper 5 Age: 44

Why does he never talks about his girlfriend to me?

This guy and I are in eachothers class and we started talking. At first i thought it was just friendly but i am doubting it now. I have a boyfriend and he knows, he's not much of a fan of him and he has a girlfriend. He...

Jayde21

Xper 5 Age: 24