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If these things are met, then the relationship progresses:

- You never got into ugly arguments with yelling matches nor insulted each other. It's ok to disagree on topics but never ok to be verbally abusive.

- Neither you nor your partner has problems with the parents. Both sets of parents like each other.

- There is mutual help in the relationship and both are serious about wanting a family.

- There is no jealousy nor trust issue whatsoever.

- Similar views on important topics

- Good management in finances and knowing when to save money

If the relationship already has lots of arguments, drama, too much differences, trust issues (even worse if cheating too place) and either your parents hating your partner or your partner's parents hating you then I can image that can either slow down the process or transform it into a dead-end that eventually leads to a break-up. After all what would be the motivation of wanting to settle down and have kids with them? None. You already have the negatives you are already dreading moving towards the next step.

It's like you're already having an issue with your employee and is he's still in training... after all that are you doing to even want to promote him (even if he has worked for 6+ years)... nope.

I found out my boyfriend of 3 years has done a couple tests on me; it was either setting up his friend to hit on me, purposely leaving money on the floor, lying about being broke once, etc.

I overheard him saying I've passed all the tests needed for the next stage (his wording) and that now I'm trusted but here is the issue:

I'm super pissed off and hurt how little to no trust there is in the relationship. I don't think I'm in the mood to welcome any surprise from him by now. I'm so hurt. I was excited like any woman about that moment but if he were to ask the question, now my answer is a NO.

Why be in the relationship if you have to play games? While most of my friends agree what he did was wrong, someone said he just wanted to make sure. I'm furious. Is it ok to still be upset.