What guys need to do to appear and be more trustworthy to girls? You know, more dependable, good to have one kind?

[Anonymous]

Of course, inspired from a question by @horse-girl.

Trust issues are dangerous. They can cost people their relationships in every domain possible. And ultimately everyone suffers from it.

Right now though, we are focusing on romantic relationships domain.

Girls, what do you expect the guys to do to seem more trustworthy to you?

Guys can hop in too on this one.

[NathanDavis]

only time can prove for you to be actually trustworthy... the people who trust me the most, have known me for 8, 10, 12, 16 and even 20 years...

besides that, there's reputation... and that one is also built over time, and it is usually a reputation that's backed up by those who have known you for all those many years

so not only they say you're trustworthy, they actually KNOW that you are, because you've been that for so many years

now, if you're dating or getting to know someone... it comes with experience, and you do tend to pick certain patters, or signs, or tendencies, there's a certain consistency within what you say and also what you do, and this will "feel right" and will also feel "familiar" with the "vibes" of other people you know to be trustworthy, and you might be wrong about it but the risk of that is very very unlikely

personally, I've never been wrong about who I trust... but I am very VERY selective about that

[OlderAndWiser]

You need to show trust in others.

You need to be dependable.

You need to stop exaggerating simply to impress others.

You need to stop being defensive and admit your personal flaws.

You eed to act like the gentleman you wish you could be.

[FilmGuy93]

Have trust in others and give/keep your own word, even when it makes your life harder. The best way to seem more trustworthy is to genuinely be more trustworthy.

[Guy__]

If you really are trustworthy, sooner or later people will start trusting you.

[CloudMassacre]

I just be myself and they trust me 🤷‍♂️ I guess I don’t give off bad vibes or anything. I feel like they can sense if someone’s being disingenuous