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What was dating like for you as an introvert, because I struggle a lot?
am (23M) and i am introvert. I had one relationship when i was like 16, it was very short and since then nothing. I am not kind of introvert who stays home all the time and has no social life. I go out a lot, i have loads...
Anonymous
(25-29) What would you do in my place?
Spoke to two guys in middle school. After college they along with their exes and wife decided to humiliate by making a video where they made fun of me and what not. The video went viral and I am being bothered by what was...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you stayed in a relationship even if your partner cheated or had an affair?
Nothing in life is black and white. The older we get, the more complicated life gets and shades of grey appear. Life is harsh, and survival is key. Sometimes we compromise to further things for our loved ones. This being...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do men always come back once you prove to be doing alright without them?
over the course of the past few months, i’ve slept with two guys. and i really liked them both. we’ll call one P and the other T. with P i really liked him at first, but he didn’t seem to want things as serious as i did....
Anonymous
(18-24) Thoroughly confused by his behavior and don’t know how to ask him about his motives?
I went out with a guy 4 times in 3 weeks, with the most recent date being two weeks ago. He was busy last weekend but clearly hasn’t been prioritizing me. His communication suddenly dropped off, too, so I assumed he was...
Katarina88
Xper 5 Age: 38 How do you get someone to stop bringing up an ex?
I had a situationship with this guy two years ago. He was pretty terrible and treated me horribly. He never wanted a relationship but also didn’t want me dating anyone else. It only felt like he was just chatting to me...
Anonymous
(25-29) What is one of your biggest questions as a Christian?
One of mine was whether I should respect people who do not respect me, cause my parents disrespect me over 80 times an hour whenever we are in the same room together and talking for 20 minutes or so. A lot of people think...
Why is a woman's reputation always tarnished whether she cheats, is the mistress, or isn't a virgin anymore?
Though there is still some double standard; lesser than years ago (at least Tiger Woods' then wife went after him and not the other woman) but it still exists. I've even seen the Spanish version in soap operas; always...
ChicanaChick
Xper 6 Age: 28 Why do I feel bad and shy when try to gift him for special occasion?
I love this guy so much I want to get him gifts that he would like best. I always think of gifts in advance (a month early) before the occasion. But when the time comes I always fail to gift him the right one. I feel bad...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, Why do people tell me I’m so thin all the damn time and eat?
I was stuck thing growing up and I’ve been trying to put on weight for YEARS. I was 90 to 107lbs in high school (four years) and it sucked. I do don’t understand why so many girls want to be skinny or thin? It isn’t all...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, Is it a red flag if he still has a picture of his ex on Facebook? Is it weird that I’m bothered by this?
It’s one picture. I’ve asked him about it and it’s his ex situationship that ended three months ago. He said they tried dating for 10 months but she’s “childish, mentally disabled and still lives with her mother at 41”....
Anonymous
(36-45) Why does my ex–best friend, who bullied me and took what she wanted, still talk about me and wants to prove she's superior after years?
My ex–best friend secretly got together with the boy I liked back in school. Her behaviour was strange she had lost weight and seemed eager for me to notice, she wanted to know if I was struggling at university, and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why does my boyfriend value me being "liked" by others and wants me to be popular?
I know this sounds crazy but I thought long and hard about what exactly is it that my boyfriend wants from me that he isn't getting already. I KNOW that not being able to simply ask him is a deep rooted issue in itself...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why's my friend telling me I keep giving off wifey vibes?
I suppose that bc I've been married and I've never dated anyone without the intention of being in an actual relationship I tend to care and be protective of the guy in my life, however as a single gal who works with...
I really need opinions, I have no one to talk to irl?
I have this draining friend.. Whenever I call her out, she never admits anything. I hate lying so much, and sometimes I don’t even confront her, she’ll come to me with the most ridiculous things, expecting me to believe...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why don’t women chase men the way men are expected to chase women?
I’ve always noticed that in dating and relationships, there seems to be this unspoken rule: men are the ones who need to make the first move, approach, initiate conversations, ask for numbers, plan the dates, and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Things I Wish People Understood About Weight Loss
I wish more people understood these 10 things about weight loss. People want quick, they want easy, and they want impossible, but those things do not help you on your journey down in pounds. 1. Temporary motivation...
Anonymous
(36-45) What was this all along? Am I over thinking to much?
To start off with I have not been in a since 2021 - my partner of 10yrs died and was grieving him for a long time until 2024 when friends recommended to do tinder just to at least talk to a man and honestly maybe have a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do not reply if you don't read the description. Does anyone not see DEI for the Trojan horse it is?
I find it embarrassing that it took the Supreme Court to explain to the simpletons that affirmative action is racist. So they put the smackdown on affirmative action. Then popped up DEI. Then the clever commies took two...
kavakava
Xper 1 Age: 30 Does she want me to keep building something with her?
So yeah met a girl on a dating app, on our first date, it went well but mid way through, another guy tried calling her and she said that was someone she has been dating for two weeks, but she's still open to dating others...
Anonymous
(36-45) 