Search Results: after break up

Why do I keep pushing my girlfriend away even though I love her and want to be close?

Lately, I’ve noticed a pattern where I distance myself from my girlfriend ignoring her texts, avoiding spending time with her and I can’t fully understand why I’m doing it. I struggle with anxiety, and deep down I think...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did I make the wrong decision after a 2 year relationship break up… even though I thought I’d be fine but ended up crying uncontrollably?

Before I made my decision it seemed really clear and what I wanted, but while we were talking it out and me telling him that I want a break, it was the hardest thing in the world for me. I was crying uncontrollably and I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is there another type of break up I don't know?

Long story short, one day he calls me and start to say he talked with his ex yesterday, n how great she is, started to belittle me in everyway comparing to her, the way he talked was as if he made a mistake being with me....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can a marriage survive after finding out your wife was sending nudes to another man… on your wedding anniversary?

Six years married. But earlier that day, while looking for wrapping paper, I stumbled across a hidden gift in her closet. It wasn’t for me. I’d had suspicions for months. Late-night Snapchat messages. Weird behavior. She...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Male friends with relationships?

It’s been a while since I’ve been on here bc people telling me to just break up with my boyfriend which I won’t do. But i need advice. I haven’t had friends since like middle school. I’m 18 now and turned to making...

Kinky_Slutt

Xper 4 Age: 20

Guy's Behavior

Thought this guy had ghosted me but then he said his messages didn’t send. Does it sound true to you? How should I respond?

So I thought this guy was ghosting me after 10 days without hearing back from him, but he just messaged me that his messages hadn’t sent. Just seems strange because my messages were still on unread… I thought this dude...

Anonymous

(30-35)

So I thought this guy was ghosting me after 10 days without hearing back from him, but he just messaged me that his messages hadn’t sent. Just seems strange because my messages were

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If a guy friend always asks you to go to the school dance with him every year, would that annoy you?

Every damn year my guy friend would ALWAYS ask me to go to the dance with him ALWAYS. Never any other girls. I could times I rejected him because I wanted to go with other guys. I went with him twice. I was so keen to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, how would you react if your boyfriend broke up with you a day after he cried in front of you?

Would you try to salvage the relationship?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Marriage & Weddings

What's the point of proposing after the woman breaks up, why do some propose when it's too late?

I've heard of this scenerio happening. It happened with one of my best friends. He proposed 2 months after she left him. Needless to say, she had already emotionally checked-out months before making the decision to leave...

Shelly2002

Xper 5 Age: 24

Have you ever unexpectedly experienced strong feelings about someone you had a relationship with years ago?

When I was 18 I moved to the other side of the country to go to college there. Shortly after that I met a girl who had come from another part of the country to attend the same college. It's about as close to love at first...

RingOfFire

Guru Age: 71

High school sweet hearts can they last even if there the only person you have been with sexually and romantically?

I would really like perspectives from people who are making it work right now? im in a long term 6 year relationship with a man I truly want to marry and spend my life with but because of some big ups and downs in our...

Cassietrigett17358

Xper 4 Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

Why did I have a dream about this guy?

There's a guy from my work called Nathan. He's a lot older than myself by 10 years. Nathan is very sweet but not the brightest lad. He's a proper Essex lad but moved down to my town after a bad break up to live with his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Never planning to be in any romantic relationship ever again after first breakup?

I do not know if I can receive any help here but I think I'm in a tricky situation. I'm 23 now and I have had one relationship so far. We met each other on a social media platform, met thrice real life and spent few hours...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My guy friend slowly seems to be getting distant and taking forever to respond but says everything is good?

My guy friend and I started talking in January on instagram when he was out of the country. I knew him cause of his ex. They had broken up months before we started talking as she was cheating. After 3 weeks of talking and...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Are these positive signs for a first date?

Last night felt less like a first date and more like an entire chapter. We matched on a dating app about two weeks ago. After five days of chatting, he asked for my number, and we moved to texting—exchanging memes,...

Scorpio962016

Xper 7 Age: 29

Am I the problem?

Ok get this. My boyfriend ghosts me and then tries to break up with me through one of my friends let's call her Sally. Sally sent him a long message of what he was doing wasn't okay. He ghosted me for 2 days!!! And my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did you cheat?

This is a gentle question for everybody. Oh I mean general.. what was the reason that you have a decided to cheat on your significant other? Why and did you regret it? As for me right after high school I've had many ups...

xxheart09xx

Xper 5 Age: 35

Guy's Behavior

Was I in the wrong?

I woke up Tuesday morning and got out of the shower. The guy who lives with me tells me that he is at work and needs a ride to the registry. After loosing his ability to renew his registration, he finally was able to pay...

xxheart09xx

Xper 5 Age: 35