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Search Results: ask him out or wait
How long were you in the talking stage before making it official?
Been talking to this guy for over 2 months and we still haven’t made it official. He had asked a few weeks in and I wanted to wait to be sure (due to past traumas). Then, I brought it up to him about 2 weeks after and he...
Anonymous
(25-29) I want to ask him out on a 3rd date, but don’t want to scare him off. What would you do in my scenario?
We met in person at an event and 2 weeks later went on 2 dates. We had a 3rd one planned but I had to cancel due to a family emergency. He hasn’t made plans with me again but he does like every one of my stories and does...
Anonymous
(30-35) What is it like to have someone you know truly cares for you who would die to save you to know without a doubt you can trust them?
I only ask because I haven't a single person I can truly trust I did have people I trusted once as a child my own blood relation it was us against our hellish life we were to fight together through hell and high water but...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is he thinking of proposing?
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months so far and it’s been really great and a really healthy relationship. He constantly mentions a future with me and does say that he plans to marry me. When he says this I assume in...
Anonymous
(18-24) Friend is treating me like a maid whenever he come to my house?
My ex and I dated on and off for a few years but we realized we were not compatible now we are friends. While we were dating, we live together I did all of the housework and I didn’t mind doing that because he paid most...
Anonymous
(25-29) Asked guy to get tested?
I met with guy from dating app. We kissed few times and I asked him to get tested for stds. He got tested and everything was negative and okay. But he tested to only 7 viruses, and I asked to take another 3 that he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why are the French in the South of France so clueless compared to othr Europeans especially the English/Brits who are intuitive?
I live in a small town in the South of France called Ste Cecile les vignes and recently went on vacation to Barnsley in Yorkshire in the UK and I noticed many differences 1/ I went to the A&E in Barnsley in England and I...
Justaguy43
Xper 4 Age: 40 Should I relax till she opens up?
Something came up at school and it's something that could be done individually but she called me to ask when I'm doing mine so she could join me. She was even begging for me to tell her if she should start hers or wait...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do people ignore each other? Help me solve this?
I was out with my friend last day for a movie. We took our seat and my friend saw his girl sitting on my left. He told me my seat was wrong and directed me to the right. Now they are sitting close to each other. My friend...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why am I calm during a crisis?
I'm typically very calm and decisive if I'm in danger will be very focused and fast on my feet despite always being scatterbrained and jumpy every minute of my life for instance. Even in situations were there is nothing I...
soulbabe
Guru Age: 26 Guys, Dumped me but still text me back and keeps me on Snapchat?
In April I reconnected with a guy I went to high school with and we hit it off. For the first 6 weeks we talked everyday and snapped each other a lot. When he was drunk he told me he loved me, asked me to date him, move...
Anonymous
(30-35) Will You Forgive 4 Years Lies?
This is just for my curiosity. I have a friend who introduced me to someone, they are from different country than me, I know them as a girl. She suddenly say wanna be friends with me so I let her, but she is a bit...
Anonymous
(18-24) HOW LONG DO GUYS WAIT BEFORE ASKING GIRL TO BE GIRLFRIEND?
Almost 2 months ago I was introduced to a guy through mutual friend, and we hit it off right away. He's 27, I'm 25. We see each other at least 3x a week including sleepovers. Neither of us is talking to or seeing anyone...
KateSTL
Xper 2 Age: 28 Should I just let it go with the guy I thought was the one?
I was talking to this guy from an app and we had our first date, he immediately asked me for a second but got really sick and kept my updated, we were talking consistently, and right before I left for a big trip he told...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is IT bad when a Man says: 'I'll take you out when I have more time'?
Some time ago I asked a guy out for a walk. Initially he said 'yes', but due to my unorthodox working-time I could only meet on Friday and Saturday. He said that he would rather not for about 2 weeks, because there were...
Insecure2
Xper 5 Age: 35 Friends with benefits stood me up?
I have known my friends with benefits for 6 years we stopped talking 2 years ago because I no longer wanted a friends with benefits. He reached out to me last month and we started seeing each other again Everything was...
Anonymous
(25-29) What is my child’s father always mean to me?
We’ve been broken up for a month now. He complained about messes & laundry. I work 12 hrs plus overtime. I’m always tired! He doesn’t have a job. I paid everything & for everything. Now he’s back at his parents, if our...
Anonymous
(30-35) Days before first date with someone?
Just want your honest opinion. I just got back into online dating from years of not using it and I have a date coming up. I have been chatting with someone for a week and last Monday I asked her to get together. She was...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guy stood me up a few weeks ago now he’s asking for another chance?
I reconnected with this guy 4 weeks ago we made plans to go on a date the following Friday we text every day, but he never mentioned the date during our conversations. the day of the date I thought he was no longer...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I text my crush today or next week to check up on her after going through a grievance of loss?
Refer to some of my previous post for some context of interactions between me and my crush if you want, but I was feeling very sad since it was the anniversary of my mom passing and my crush is religious so I know she...
Anonymous
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