Search Results: make the first move

My girlfriend and I were long distance for about 6 months, she made a guy friend 2 months before I moved here and it makes me uncomfortable?

My girlfriend loves dancing Bachata, and she has gone to classes and socials our entire relationship. It did bother me at first because I only viewed dance as something romantic and not as a sport or hobby. Well, she met...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Men, how would like to be approached?

I've been going out for walks, going DT, & anywhere just being open to men. I'll smile and say hi if I think he's attractive. I've had a few men say hi back. One of my male friends said that smiling and saying hi isn't...

Cmoreins

Xper 5 Age: 39

Education & Career

Life Tips: So You've Graduated and You're Going Off To College... What Next?

So you've just graduated high school, congratulations! Now you're on your way this summer or in the fall to college/university and you're maybe really excited or really nervous (or both) and you don't know what to do or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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What do guys think about this statement?

“If he wanted to, he would.” Do you guys believe in that? I've been thinking about reaching out to this guy I like, maybe even asking him out, lol. But sometimes I worry about getting rejected. Plus, if he thinks I’m...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this a red flag?

I have been together soon with my boyfriend for 2 years. In the beginning of our relationship we agreed we do not want to wait years upon years before we move together. We live in two different countries so one has to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it true that some guys are too shy to make the first move?

To the extent that they sabotage their chances with women they like or get too paralysed to make a move to ask her out, kiss her or escalate to sex? I was reading that this happens, but I’m a woman and haven’t discussed...

HappyWoman34

Influencer Age: 37

My husband said I’m ungrateful?

I don’t know how I let my husband make all my life decisions and now I’m not where I thought I would be in life. We were best friends who graduated high school together and started dating in college. He’s one of those...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy bff liking me back?

So there's this guy. He's a year younger than I am and we've been friends for almost 5 years. We were friends, classmates, teammates, etc. I've become a part of his family. Before I left for university, he had just broken...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do women lose interest in me so fast?

First off, I'm a Tall guy, physically fit with tattoos who has gone through some dating trouble recently. Fitness is my lifestyle essentially. I would definitely say I'm a very confident and social guy as well. Most...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would my boyfriend tell me my butt looks bigger in leggings?

My boyfriend usually taps on my butt in a playful way and says big booty which makes me feel a little self conscious but good at the same time. I like it more when he says I have a bubble butt without referencing my butt...

Latayshia122

Xper 1 Age: 30

How can I make a first move without actually making a first move?

I come from a place where guys hate it when girls make the first move and the guy is the one who should do it. I like a guy and I want to approach him without him knowing that I’m trying to get him. Guys here tend to like...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Other

I am haunted by my regrets. how to move on from past mistakes?

Hello. I think every one of us has regrets in life and certainly have made mistakes that we learn from and help us move forward. However i keep getting haunted by mine even though im trying to move past it. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What’s the most painful experience you’ve been through and what did it teach you?

Breaking my bone - was the most painful experience I’ve been through physically. I had my shinbone broken in two places, one of them - X-Ray didn’t see and they only fixed one place into a cast, The first two days I was...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Influencer Age: 29

Worried about my BF’s relationship with his work wife. How can we move forward with trust?

My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for a year now. We break up for two weeks and strong as ever the last 4 months. However my boyfriend was frequently discussing his female friend who helped him land a job. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Am I wrong to think this guy’s attracted to me, if he stares into my eyes every time we pass?

I work in a hospital and I keep on noticing this very cute Junior Doctor, and he seems to notice me too. To begin with I kept on seeing him in random places and we would just sort of notice each other and make eye...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Bumble dating app will now allow men to contact women first where before the woman had to make the first move. Good idea?

coachTanthony

Influencer Age: 55

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Why a girl who friend-zoned me starts texting after monthes of no contact?

“Okay, everyone, it feels shameful to say, but I liked her for about four years before I told her, and she friend-zoned me. I tried to stay away from her, but she was always trying to stay friends with me. She kind of...

Anonymous

(18-24)