Search Results: relationship commitment

Early morning my ex messaged me “all good?” What does this mean?

We were dating for 1.5 years before he moved to the states for a job and said he’d like to “pause” our relationship bc its long distance and he’s not ready for a commitment. I was obviously upset bc this is not what we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My friend is someone he wasn't before. What is happening to him?

My friend, let's call him Josh, fell in love with a girl, let's call her Annie. They dated for a year, they were in love, it was pretty evident. Josh has had bad relationships, but this one was different, she loved the...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it normal to be terrified of forming a family?

Last year I had what many women are looking for. I had it all. I had him right there. All I had to do was be ready and tell him I want to have kids with him. He was waiting for my answer. If I had said I'm ready, he would...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Home Chats

"Why I Push Women Away": How One Man's Personal Revelation Linked Back to His Father's Affair

This is the real-life story of one man, and his journey to discover why he leaves. I listened to this last night, found it very interesting, and thought I'd share it with you today. "Why did I leave?" "Why did I lose...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Why do liars promise to change but never do?

On the 2nd year of an unstable relationship, I was breaking up for these reasons: He was being a jerk to others, had no real life aspirations, his excessive tardiness, overheard him saying negative comments about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have feelings for my friends with benefits and he really likes me too, but he also misses his ex sometimes. How should I approach this?

Hello! Previously, I made a post on here about my friends with benefits wanting to slow and asked if it means he wants to start fresh and take turn it into a serious relationship. I have since sat down and spoke to him,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

From a guys pov, what should I do about this guy I’m talking to?

Me (21) f have been talking to (19) m. I found out he was 19 2 months in , he was afraid to tell me his real age which Ik was wrong but I deeply care for him. We’ve been talking for 3 months and the first month was great,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I being blinded by my love for him? Has he been using me?

16 years ago my boyfriend left me when I was 3 months pregnant ( unplanned pregnancy) and he chose not to have anything to do with our child or I for 7 years when he suddenly reached out to us wanting to meet his child...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

He says he likes me and wants to see me but when it’s time to hang out he bails. He always texts me though so does he actually like me?

We have been talking for about 4 months but we both want to take things slow. We only hung out once but we talk daily. He shows he’s interested but told me he’s nervous about commitment because of his past. He has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The things women never have to say on an online dating profile. Take some advice from a friendly semi-pro.

My children are my world! If you have come to an online dating site to boast about you're children you've come to the wrong place. As a man, when you say you're a single mother I get it. You don't need to say your...

DaveJord

Editor Age: 49

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Is this a commitment?

He bought a house in April and asked me to move in saying he didn’t want a commitment. In my eyes that right there is almost a commitment. Over the month’s we’ve become sexually intimate. Last night he eagerly said “this...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

How this guy I love keeps running away from a relationship, but won't let me go?

We have found ourselves in a circle of problems and commitment issues so many times. I feel that he wants me be can't be in a relationship. I couldn't understand that in the last 2 years of being together. I kept running...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do some guys have girlfriends they're not that into?

Like what is the point of this? A guy was telling me the other day that his girlfriend of 2 years is "not the one" but he's dating her anyway. In fact, he really doesn't sound like he's into her that much. He told me he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do most people avoid commitment in a relationship these days?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What's being in a long term commitment relationship mean to you?

If you're in a long term committed relationship would you intentionally withhold key information about your life from your SO, just because you don't want them to know? If you don't want your SO to know about or care...

DaveJord

Editor Age: 49

Is he being honest?

When men tell you that they just got out a long term relationship and aren’t ready for anything serious, is that them being honest? I spent an amazing weekend with a guy, met all his friends, danced and laughed loads. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, why are you afraid of commitment?

I met a girl whom I had good vibes with. No awkward conversations. We would naturally look at each other first when we hear something funny. (or something weird) After three months when I finally asked her...

Anonymous

(30-35)