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Search Results: asking for a first date
Who generally is expected to pay for the first day these days?
My question is complicated for a complicated world. The rules of dating are not what they once were. Who usually pays for a first date these days? Do you split it? Does the woman pay if the woman does the asking (which...
MerryMaria
Xper 1 Age: 38 How true is this?
I hate asking vague questions in the title like this, but a guy sent me a dm that said, "dinner, show, dancing." Now as a package, none of that really appeals to me. I do like dinner, I like to eat, I do go to a lot of...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is new years eve a good first date idea?
I've known this girl since about the start of this year, and by now, i think we really like eachother. We interact often as we both work in stores close to eachother in a mall. My plan is to ask her out on Christmas day,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why even ask then?
So why would a woman say she wants to hang out and drink a little and ask what im doing that day just to not respond to or answer me at all? I left my wife 2 years ago because cheaters dont deserve another chance and...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I just leave him?
So I met this guy on a dating app, we immediately hit it off and started talking and texting for a while. Had a great first date , guy asked for a second when we said goodbye and already warned me his next week is going...
Asker1005
Xper 1 Age: 26 Girlfriend broke up with me for asking to split bill, AITAH?
We took turns paying and one time she asked me how much she owes me. On the next date I thought because of that she wants to start splitting. We went to eat and I paid but as we walked out I asked if she could send me...
Anonymous
(25-29) Flaking on First Date, after Only Green flags?
I have been talking to a guy everyday for about 2 months (we matched on dating app). He travels a lot for his full time job and is also a full time student, me being a grad student as well our schedules are all over the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Can’t tell if this guy likes me or if I’m reading too much into it?
I need outside opinions because I can’t think rationally in these situations and my overthinking takes over. There’s this guy in my class I’ve been talking to for a week. Last Saturday we were at a house party. I...
angelwingsss
Xper 1 Age: 18 How to know if a guy is losing interest?
so i recently went on Bumble and found pretty good conversations with several different guys but they all stopped talking me around the same day and i matched with this guy i've never actually matched with someone who...
Anonymous
(30-35) He Said He Didn’t Want a Relationship, But Still Kept Coming Back — Then Posted His Girlfriend?
I want to share my experience because I’ve been really confused by this guy. This will be long, but the details matter, because it wasn’t just a simple breakup. It’s been months of mixed signals and push-pull behavior. I...
Leaxleaaa
Xper 1 Age: 26 Why do I keep thinking about my guy friend when I’m dating this incredible man I’m seeing?
I’ve been seeing this guy I met at college for three months and I really do like him. He’s funny, smart, honest and he’s so cute. Love that he does not take shit from anyone. I really like him but lately I keep thinking...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I know if this boy I've been friends with for like several years likes me?
okay so I've known thus boy pretty much since we were little. We grew up together and we hang out a lot. I dont know if he sees me as like.. a little sister, or a close friend or something more. We're both currently 16....
ryanreynolds18
Xper 1 Age: 16 I accidentally got into a situationship (first one ever)?
Idek how it happened. I met this guy and he pursued me heavily at first. Dates and fun activities, frequent invites. Few weeks in we hooked up. He asked me out week 4 of us meeting. He wasn’t really my type and I was...
Anonymous
(25-29) When a guy says he wants to see you more instead of asking you out?
I had a great first date with a guy and we’ve been casually texting since. He sent me a message saying ‘I think I want to see you more’. Why wouldn’t he just outright ask for another date? I want to see him too but I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Dating is scary, how do I get over it? (23F)?
I used to be open to dating a few years ago before my first boyfriend, but once we neared the end of our break up he started posting racist things on x, recorded us having sex without asking and told me he’d shoot my dad....
Anonymous
(18-24) If a guy shows you pics of his family on a date, is it a sign he likes you?
I was into a guy I recently went on a first date with. He showed me several pictures of his mom ( without me asking). Is this a good sign or could it be nothing?
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I get over it?
Last year i dated this guy, we were each-others first relationship. It was nice, although he was unable to communicate. He just really couldn’t but he still tried his best for me. A problem I had by myself was that his...
Lovergirlhey
Xper 1 Age: 15 Guys, He wants to stay the night?
Talking to a guy 3 weeks. I know him as a friend before we started talking. He lives 2 hours away in a different city. He assumed he would be staying over due to the distance. He is disappointed that I'm asking him to go...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, How likely are you to completely forget a woman you spent hours with... to the point that you chase her again?
A guy I was starting to see (~a year ago) starts reconnecting this past week. Things have been very odd over the past year (too long to write out) and something now seems to be shifting. I don't know what it is, however...
Why would a guy do this?
Ok so my ex he broke up with me via phone call the other day because i was asking to set up phone dates (we just recently went from seeing eachother every day ro long distance) then not even 10 minutes later he texts me...
Anonymous
(36-45) 